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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 566257" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I think your brief conversation with J and his response indicates that he is ok accepting that his energy level is really too high for parents of quiet kids to feel comfortable with him as a guest. That's a huge life lesson. Sometimes we are not included and it does not mean that we are "bad" or "losers" or "abnormal" etc.</p><p></p><p>It may sound like I'm being condesending but I'm not. I am impressed that he is so perceptive. You can not control who enjoys your company as an adult and he can not do so as a little boy. I've raised two difficult child's who were excluded from many group activities and parties. difficult child#2 as an Aspie got it. GFGmom was extremely hyper and not perceptive. She did not "get it" like J. I wanted so much to "fix it" but I couldn't. </p><p></p><p>I would definitely not attempt to enlighten the parent host. I'm sure the results would not be helpful to J. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 566257, member: 35"] I think your brief conversation with J and his response indicates that he is ok accepting that his energy level is really too high for parents of quiet kids to feel comfortable with him as a guest. That's a huge life lesson. Sometimes we are not included and it does not mean that we are "bad" or "losers" or "abnormal" etc. It may sound like I'm being condesending but I'm not. I am impressed that he is so perceptive. You can not control who enjoys your company as an adult and he can not do so as a little boy. I've raised two difficult child's who were excluded from many group activities and parties. difficult child#2 as an Aspie got it. GFGmom was extremely hyper and not perceptive. She did not "get it" like J. I wanted so much to "fix it" but I couldn't. I would definitely not attempt to enlighten the parent host. I'm sure the results would not be helpful to J. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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