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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752181" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>You don't know if the grandchild your son would have had would have been in your life. Our kids tend to not marry stable partners too. And they disappear. And CPS comes calling. And we are sometimes too old and sick to step in. Or we simply are too tired to raise another child at 64. And that is okay in my opinion.</p><p></p><p>At any rate, it is my choice not to fall all over Kay and do what she wants to see my grandchild. It was physically killing us both. The contact we had was sparadic and controlled, not like with Amy's kids. We had to pay to see Jaden and it was on her terms. We can't bear it anymore.</p><p></p><p>This adult seems to me to be passive aggressive abusive. She doesn't do what is expected of her in the family home and.is always dependent on Mom in every way. I think the parents have every right to tell her to leave. This is my opinion. They can buy her somewhere to live if they don't want her homeless but we are sorry we did that for Kay. But it is an option if you can afford it. Or you can pay rent.</p><p></p><p>I learned that nobody knows how he or she will feel about any situation, including myself, until we are living it. I thought I would die for Kay and Jaden. I find myself in a very different frame of mind now. This poster's adult daughter is pregnant again. I can't know how the poster feels or what is best for her. I am not her. I can only share and let her decide and support her decision.</p><p></p><p>Copa, you are a brilliant, compassionate woman and I am very worn out and maybe my heart has shut down a bit. I am sorry for all of us who have to make these horrible decisions. God bless all of us who live this nightmare.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752181, member: 23706"] You don't know if the grandchild your son would have had would have been in your life. Our kids tend to not marry stable partners too. And they disappear. And CPS comes calling. And we are sometimes too old and sick to step in. Or we simply are too tired to raise another child at 64. And that is okay in my opinion. At any rate, it is my choice not to fall all over Kay and do what she wants to see my grandchild. It was physically killing us both. The contact we had was sparadic and controlled, not like with Amy's kids. We had to pay to see Jaden and it was on her terms. We can't bear it anymore. This adult seems to me to be passive aggressive abusive. She doesn't do what is expected of her in the family home and.is always dependent on Mom in every way. I think the parents have every right to tell her to leave. This is my opinion. They can buy her somewhere to live if they don't want her homeless but we are sorry we did that for Kay. But it is an option if you can afford it. Or you can pay rent. I learned that nobody knows how he or she will feel about any situation, including myself, until we are living it. I thought I would die for Kay and Jaden. I find myself in a very different frame of mind now. This poster's adult daughter is pregnant again. I can't know how the poster feels or what is best for her. I am not her. I can only share and let her decide and support her decision. Copa, you are a brilliant, compassionate woman and I am very worn out and maybe my heart has shut down a bit. I am sorry for all of us who have to make these horrible decisions. God bless all of us who live this nightmare. [/QUOTE]
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