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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 139768" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Oh, boy, how this must just rip out your mommy heart. I am so, so sorry.</p><p></p><p>I know from my own difficult children quest to find and reunite with his bio father, (which he finally did) how painful it is to hear how much better the other parent "could" be, or "is". If it helps any - my difficult child is finally able to look at his dad and see his faults, and that he is a person with many, many problems - but this is only after 1 1/2 years of being around him. For 15 years there was so much hope placed in finding his dad, so much idealistic, fantasyland rhetoric in his mind, that it took him this long to finally come back down to reality - and there is still a long ways to go. </p><p></p><p>I know your situation is a bit different - but I do understand the bitter, hot tears shed over the sacrifice of literally giving everything to help your child succeed, only to have that thrown by the wayside in their childish attempts to play out a fantasy. It stings.</p><p></p><p>Big, big hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 139768, member: 3301"] Oh, boy, how this must just rip out your mommy heart. I am so, so sorry. I know from my own difficult children quest to find and reunite with his bio father, (which he finally did) how painful it is to hear how much better the other parent "could" be, or "is". If it helps any - my difficult child is finally able to look at his dad and see his faults, and that he is a person with many, many problems - but this is only after 1 1/2 years of being around him. For 15 years there was so much hope placed in finding his dad, so much idealistic, fantasyland rhetoric in his mind, that it took him this long to finally come back down to reality - and there is still a long ways to go. I know your situation is a bit different - but I do understand the bitter, hot tears shed over the sacrifice of literally giving everything to help your child succeed, only to have that thrown by the wayside in their childish attempts to play out a fantasy. It stings. Big, big hugs. [/QUOTE]
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