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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 576721" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>He just got home. No one at school noticed the eye, well, no adult did. Our district really will call the cops and insist it should get ISS or OSS or count toward expulsion if the kids are on their way home. I know LOTS of cases where they did. They also insist on pressing charges.</p><p></p><p>My biggest problem is that it was not a mutual fight. It went to physical and the kid ran as soon as he had hurt thank you. thank you literally had no warning that anything physical was going to happen, and it was not even an argument as much as each of them having different opinions. There was no real build up or anything to it.</p><p></p><p>The other boy was very sorry, said he was angry at someone else, that thank you did not have any warning and that he really hoped they could get past it. He took anger with some one else out by hitting thank you with essentially a sucker attack when thank you wasn't looking. The boy DOES understand that if it happens again, I will be involved and so will his folks and if they take no action then charges will be pressed and/or school will be involved. I don't want to do that, nothing sounds like less fun except dental work to me. But sucker attacks are not okay and if you have an anger problem then you need some help. If you inflict this on MY kid and your folks don't get you that help? Then it is my job as part of the community to see that you do get it, even if the school and cops have to help me. </p><p></p><p>If thank you was calling him names or they were arguing and saying mean things to each other, then I would be more likely to punish my kid and tell him he deserves what he got. The one time Wiz Occupational Therapist (OT) punched I wanted to buy the other kid ice cream and cookies. But that was in a psychiatric hospital group and the kid took serous offense to the way Wiz was saying it was perfectly fine to abuse his sister. it was hte first thing that got through to Wiz. </p><p></p><p>But even the other kid freely admits that thank you did NOTHING to provoke him or argue except say pretty much, "I can see what you are saying but I think this" about at tv show. The attack came from BEHIND and was totally out of the blue. THAT is my biggest problem, and THAT is why I would go to his parents and if they laughed at me I would press charges. That is a sign of a real problem and if this isn't a learning experience, it should be. Even husband, who is about the most 'well, boys do that' parent on the planet, thought this was a sign of a real problem. We let thank you handle it this time as long as the other parents didn't get the school or cops involved. I do have photos of his injuries and of his uninjured hands because if he did hit the other kid, his hands would be banged up. And they are not at all. thank you has thin skin and gets banged up easily, so it would show especially on his hands if he hit the kid.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 576721, member: 1233"] He just got home. No one at school noticed the eye, well, no adult did. Our district really will call the cops and insist it should get ISS or OSS or count toward expulsion if the kids are on their way home. I know LOTS of cases where they did. They also insist on pressing charges. My biggest problem is that it was not a mutual fight. It went to physical and the kid ran as soon as he had hurt thank you. thank you literally had no warning that anything physical was going to happen, and it was not even an argument as much as each of them having different opinions. There was no real build up or anything to it. The other boy was very sorry, said he was angry at someone else, that thank you did not have any warning and that he really hoped they could get past it. He took anger with some one else out by hitting thank you with essentially a sucker attack when thank you wasn't looking. The boy DOES understand that if it happens again, I will be involved and so will his folks and if they take no action then charges will be pressed and/or school will be involved. I don't want to do that, nothing sounds like less fun except dental work to me. But sucker attacks are not okay and if you have an anger problem then you need some help. If you inflict this on MY kid and your folks don't get you that help? Then it is my job as part of the community to see that you do get it, even if the school and cops have to help me. If thank you was calling him names or they were arguing and saying mean things to each other, then I would be more likely to punish my kid and tell him he deserves what he got. The one time Wiz Occupational Therapist (OT) punched I wanted to buy the other kid ice cream and cookies. But that was in a psychiatric hospital group and the kid took serous offense to the way Wiz was saying it was perfectly fine to abuse his sister. it was hte first thing that got through to Wiz. But even the other kid freely admits that thank you did NOTHING to provoke him or argue except say pretty much, "I can see what you are saying but I think this" about at tv show. The attack came from BEHIND and was totally out of the blue. THAT is my biggest problem, and THAT is why I would go to his parents and if they laughed at me I would press charges. That is a sign of a real problem and if this isn't a learning experience, it should be. Even husband, who is about the most 'well, boys do that' parent on the planet, thought this was a sign of a real problem. We let thank you handle it this time as long as the other parents didn't get the school or cops involved. I do have photos of his injuries and of his uninjured hands because if he did hit the other kid, his hands would be banged up. And they are not at all. thank you has thin skin and gets banged up easily, so it would show especially on his hands if he hit the kid. [/QUOTE]
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