SWOT, I do not feel we can banish blame. Becauese we cannot control others. Blame is an unseen trap. We fall into it. Either from others or in ourselves.
But it can be a teacher, too.
As Cedar is showing us we can use blame as a signal on to which we can shine a bright light to rid ourselves of limits or to grow strong from the efforts of others to limit us.
I do not know how to do it yet, with courage and grace. but I feel the need.
This all has my sister (and mother) written all over it. I have not yet recovered myself. I will check in with you tomorrow morning. I will take a rest right now.
COPA
