Blame; and guilt, and shame. And healing. It's amazing what we can find once we know the questions. These sites will help us. That these kinds of sites exist tells us that what we are going through now is a healthy phase of healing; we are making incredible progress. Like always, it feels terrible to be in the heart of the thing. But that's okay. We are on the path, moving well. How does that go? From a place beyond fear....
So that must be where we are, then.
Still feels pretty scary to me.
I always wonder whether I am going to get stuck in the ugliness. I do, in a way. We incorporate those abandoned parts of ourselves, as we move through our healing.
I think that is what is happening to us.
http://growinghumankindness.com/forgiving/
http://www.psychologyhelp.com/chng41.htm
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/healing-together/2011/04/why-we-blame-uses-and-misuses/
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/the-difference-between-self-responsibility-and-self-blame-in-healing
***This looks like a great site***
http://www.net-burst.net/help/free-therapy.htm
http://www.wellbeingalignment.com/personal-accountability.html
Cedar
