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<blockquote data-quote="bluebell" data-source="post: 708920" data-attributes="member: 16761"><p>Thanks so much all of you! I feel like my life has plunged into some sort of dysfunctional reality show and I'm the producer and have to answer for all the criticisms and low rankings <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> My husband says the right things about detachment but he does another. I think we kicked him out for different reasons. I was tired of all the phone calls, drugs, guns and his associates at my house when I was at work and otherwise. I was tired of the out all night and sleeping on my couch all day. I think husband really thinks this is going to work, that A will hit rock bottom and this is a method of getting him there and then we can swoop in and help. I'm so sick and tired that I don't even care about that anymore, I just need peace in my life and the house that I pay so dearly for. I want my daughter to have the space and time to do her homeschooling, get a job and start driving independently. I'm not thinking about A anymore, I'm thinking about myself. A has had so many opportunities to turn things around but has squandered them all. MrMike, what you say about defining your living space is what I'm trying to do. You guys are great and have helped me get thru the morning!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bluebell, post: 708920, member: 16761"] Thanks so much all of you! I feel like my life has plunged into some sort of dysfunctional reality show and I'm the producer and have to answer for all the criticisms and low rankings :) My husband says the right things about detachment but he does another. I think we kicked him out for different reasons. I was tired of all the phone calls, drugs, guns and his associates at my house when I was at work and otherwise. I was tired of the out all night and sleeping on my couch all day. I think husband really thinks this is going to work, that A will hit rock bottom and this is a method of getting him there and then we can swoop in and help. I'm so sick and tired that I don't even care about that anymore, I just need peace in my life and the house that I pay so dearly for. I want my daughter to have the space and time to do her homeschooling, get a job and start driving independently. I'm not thinking about A anymore, I'm thinking about myself. A has had so many opportunities to turn things around but has squandered them all. MrMike, what you say about defining your living space is what I'm trying to do. You guys are great and have helped me get thru the morning! [/QUOTE]
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