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<blockquote data-quote="wisernow" data-source="post: 709019" data-attributes="member: 20373"><p>I too came to this realization after many years of banging my head against a brick wall when I couldn't fix things for my son.....am I that arrogant that I think my way should be his way? Instead of controlling I had to learn to come from a space of humbleness...to recognize another life spirit going on his journey the way he needs to and without my judgment. Letting go of that control and guilt I felt was so very very liberating and actually helped us begin to forge a new but different type of relationship. It is still hard and I have to be so careful that I don't jump in as the rescue helicopter anymore but it was only then that things began to change .</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wisernow, post: 709019, member: 20373"] I too came to this realization after many years of banging my head against a brick wall when I couldn't fix things for my son.....am I that arrogant that I think my way should be his way? Instead of controlling I had to learn to come from a space of humbleness...to recognize another life spirit going on his journey the way he needs to and without my judgment. Letting go of that control and guilt I felt was so very very liberating and actually helped us begin to forge a new but different type of relationship. It is still hard and I have to be so careful that I don't jump in as the rescue helicopter anymore but it was only then that things began to change . [/QUOTE]
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