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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 16380" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p>If one focus on the future , see the past as a learning experience , you take out blame from the dynamic. If one is being judgmental with a kid , always holding him up to rules and expectations , he will always find some one else to blame ,but when you give him a vision and he now has a plan to do better , he will take responsibilty</p><p>We have to see our role too, as Alfie Kohn said - Discipline is the problem , not the solution. If we give the message We all make mistakes, and you can trust me to help you do better in the future , we take blame out of the picture.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 16380, member: 10"] Hi, If one focus on the future , see the past as a learning experience , you take out blame from the dynamic. If one is being judgmental with a kid , always holding him up to rules and expectations , he will always find some one else to blame ,but when you give him a vision and he now has a plan to do better , he will take responsibilty We have to see our role too, as Alfie Kohn said - Discipline is the problem , not the solution. If we give the message We all make mistakes, and you can trust me to help you do better in the future , we take blame out of the picture. Allan [/QUOTE]
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