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<blockquote data-quote="helpme" data-source="post: 350460" data-attributes="member: 8202"><p>I am also in IL. CHASI is the organization that assisted in temporary placement for my 16 yo easy child.</p><p>I was also treated in the same manner. I chose not to battle. I did learn that CHASI has no </p><p>legal authority to make/force any placement. I also learned that CHASI reacted entirely </p><p>differently when I informed them that they might be subpoenaed by the court as "experts" </p><p>(yea, reverse psychiatric onto THEM). They wanted no participation and no liability. </p><p>It was a major "Aha" moment.</p><p></p><p>Daisyface, great advice, as usual, wish I would have known about it before it got "too late". </p><p>Marguerite also had wonderful advice, about choosing your battles and the value of the</p><p>battle overall. Personally, I chose to let the 16 yo end up wherever she liked, I just didn't </p><p>have the strength for any more battles.</p><p></p><p>I did find myself in the defending myself against an Order of Protection from the same </p><p>child only a few months after CHASI assisted in the temporary placement. True to the </p><p>situation, they did not want to be involved in any manner. They did provide me with </p><p>copies of the paperwork that both the child and I had signed which we both signed</p><p>and agreed that there was no domestic violence by either of us. They chose to provide </p><p>the copies rather than making appearances in court of course.</p><p></p><p>I won my case as the defendant, the judge (also holding the divorce family case) did </p><p>not make any decision or court order as to the child's placement, and I remained </p><p>holding custody. DCFS did not enter the situation in any manner. LOL, I think EX was</p><p>worried about DCFS evaluating him and explaining how he was supporting two minor </p><p>children in the same household with an order of protection between them. He wouldn't </p><p>have dared to have DCFS enter the picture. personally, I could have cared less if they did,</p><p>because I knew I had nothing to hide.</p><p></p><p>To the child's credit, I am unaware of any illegal activities, and she is working a full </p><p>time and a part time job. She is also still using CHASI's support in assisting with attending</p><p>college in the fall. I was aware of this possibility as they were announcing I was the </p><p>worst mother ever to my face in front of my daughter.</p><p>I chose to skip the battle and practice detaching.</p><p></p><p>Kudos to this site, for providing a plethora of knowledge. I sometimes wonder if anyone </p><p>has considered a "state by state sub forum" to assist everyone with the state and local </p><p>county agencies services.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpme, post: 350460, member: 8202"] I am also in IL. CHASI is the organization that assisted in temporary placement for my 16 yo easy child. I was also treated in the same manner. I chose not to battle. I did learn that CHASI has no legal authority to make/force any placement. I also learned that CHASI reacted entirely differently when I informed them that they might be subpoenaed by the court as "experts" (yea, reverse psychiatric onto THEM). They wanted no participation and no liability. It was a major "Aha" moment. Daisyface, great advice, as usual, wish I would have known about it before it got "too late". Marguerite also had wonderful advice, about choosing your battles and the value of the battle overall. Personally, I chose to let the 16 yo end up wherever she liked, I just didn't have the strength for any more battles. I did find myself in the defending myself against an Order of Protection from the same child only a few months after CHASI assisted in the temporary placement. True to the situation, they did not want to be involved in any manner. They did provide me with copies of the paperwork that both the child and I had signed which we both signed and agreed that there was no domestic violence by either of us. They chose to provide the copies rather than making appearances in court of course. I won my case as the defendant, the judge (also holding the divorce family case) did not make any decision or court order as to the child's placement, and I remained holding custody. DCFS did not enter the situation in any manner. LOL, I think EX was worried about DCFS evaluating him and explaining how he was supporting two minor children in the same household with an order of protection between them. He wouldn't have dared to have DCFS enter the picture. personally, I could have cared less if they did, because I knew I had nothing to hide. To the child's credit, I am unaware of any illegal activities, and she is working a full time and a part time job. She is also still using CHASI's support in assisting with attending college in the fall. I was aware of this possibility as they were announcing I was the worst mother ever to my face in front of my daughter. I chose to skip the battle and practice detaching. Kudos to this site, for providing a plethora of knowledge. I sometimes wonder if anyone has considered a "state by state sub forum" to assist everyone with the state and local county agencies services. [/QUOTE]
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