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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 354367" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Katya</p><p></p><p>Sounds like you're feeling pretty much the same way I did after nichole tore into me, even though none of it was true. What helped me was knowing the reason why she'd done it. And it probably helped that I'd expected the reaction as I'd just called her on some pretty awful behavior. (read my post over in PE) We also had a couple of days were there was no communication. I chose not to respond to her attack simply because I know when she's hurting she lashes back viciously and rarely means what comes out of her mouth. Doesn't excuse it. And we've talked about it calmly since, once she apologized. I think those few days of no communication gave me time to get over the sting of it and be myself again when she was ready to apologize.</p><p></p><p>But this is a common thing with Nichole. She has been working on controlling her temper and what comes out of her mouth for the past 3 or so years. She is finally getting that other people are going to be hurt by her words even if they know there is no truth in them or that she doesn't really mean it. That took quite a while. It used to drive me crazy that one second she'd rip you a new one and the next was like nothing ever happened. ugh</p><p></p><p>Don't be embarrassed you took him the pillows, which let you check on him. Detachment takes time and practice, lots of time and practice. lol </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 354367, member: 84"] Katya Sounds like you're feeling pretty much the same way I did after nichole tore into me, even though none of it was true. What helped me was knowing the reason why she'd done it. And it probably helped that I'd expected the reaction as I'd just called her on some pretty awful behavior. (read my post over in PE) We also had a couple of days were there was no communication. I chose not to respond to her attack simply because I know when she's hurting she lashes back viciously and rarely means what comes out of her mouth. Doesn't excuse it. And we've talked about it calmly since, once she apologized. I think those few days of no communication gave me time to get over the sting of it and be myself again when she was ready to apologize. But this is a common thing with Nichole. She has been working on controlling her temper and what comes out of her mouth for the past 3 or so years. She is finally getting that other people are going to be hurt by her words even if they know there is no truth in them or that she doesn't really mean it. That took quite a while. It used to drive me crazy that one second she'd rip you a new one and the next was like nothing ever happened. ugh Don't be embarrassed you took him the pillows, which let you check on him. Detachment takes time and practice, lots of time and practice. lol Hugs [/QUOTE]
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