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<blockquote data-quote="JJJ" data-source="post: 354413" data-attributes="member: 1169"><p>Katya,</p><p></p><p>This sounds so much like my cousin. She was also 'coached' on her coming out to expect complete family rejection (we are Roman Catholic). Sad, as no one would have rejected her.</p><p></p><p>I'd respond in writing - a letter co-signed by you and husband - so that difficult child 2 can read and reread it.</p><p></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-size: 10px">Dear difficult child 2,</span></span></em></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></em></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-size: 10px">We have received your letter. We already knew that you were homosexual and are glad that you are comfortable enough to come out. Your letter seems to show more your fear of rejection than a reflection of our feelings for you. We love you and we hope that you learn to love yourself. God loves you too - as you are. We are unsure where you got the idea that God would not love you if you loved another man. God is love - including heterosexual, homosexual, familial and friendship. </span></span></em></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></em></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-size: 10px">We are confident in our relationship with each other. We do not keep secrets from each other, please do not presume to ask us to do that. We are also confident in our unconditional love for you. </span></span></em></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></em></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-size: 10px">Love,</span></span></em></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-size: 10px"></span></span></em></p><p><em><span style="font-size: 15px"><span style="font-size: 10px">Mom and Dad</span></span></em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JJJ, post: 354413, member: 1169"] Katya, This sounds so much like my cousin. She was also 'coached' on her coming out to expect complete family rejection (we are Roman Catholic). Sad, as no one would have rejected her. I'd respond in writing - a letter co-signed by you and husband - so that difficult child 2 can read and reread it. [I][SIZE="4"][SIZE="2"]Dear difficult child 2, We have received your letter. We already knew that you were homosexual and are glad that you are comfortable enough to come out. Your letter seems to show more your fear of rejection than a reflection of our feelings for you. We love you and we hope that you learn to love yourself. God loves you too - as you are. We are unsure where you got the idea that God would not love you if you loved another man. God is love - including heterosexual, homosexual, familial and friendship. We are confident in our relationship with each other. We do not keep secrets from each other, please do not presume to ask us to do that. We are also confident in our unconditional love for you. Love, Mom and Dad[/SIZE][/SIZE][/I] [/QUOTE]
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