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<blockquote data-quote="WiseChoices" data-source="post: 756852" data-attributes="member: 24254"><p>Thank you, Fluffy and TNT,</p><p>yes, I don't put too much stake into an online quiz. A therapist I saw felt my daughter was Borderline (BPD) which is the first time I heard about it. I read up on it and could not see my daughter in that. But she recommended the book "Stop walking on eggshells" to me and as I read and re-read the material, I started to see the distinct possibility. </p><p></p><p>I don't see any physical violence with daughter though. She started cutting, bingeing, and smoking pot August '18. She was 19 at the time. I see the trait of idealizing and devaluing people the strongest. I was her everything and then her enemy. Never got an explanation (I asked) . I see the abandonment fears, perceived and real. My devaluing began when I took a trip to Europe solo and she was at school (she was 19). Threats of suicide and lots of suicidal ideation (unfortunately, this make me hurt for her). </p><p></p><p>She says she has depression and anxiety but the medications (she has been through 5 different combinations) do not help. I feel the medications make her aggressive and not feeling about herself or anyone. I see glimpses of my daughter come back when she is off the medications. She always goes back off and then starts again. </p><p></p><p>I am wondering whether I have it. I have huge issues with abandonment. I will ask my therapist what she thinks when I see her next Monday. Thank you for your feedback.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WiseChoices, post: 756852, member: 24254"] Thank you, Fluffy and TNT, yes, I don't put too much stake into an online quiz. A therapist I saw felt my daughter was Borderline (BPD) which is the first time I heard about it. I read up on it and could not see my daughter in that. But she recommended the book "Stop walking on eggshells" to me and as I read and re-read the material, I started to see the distinct possibility. I don't see any physical violence with daughter though. She started cutting, bingeing, and smoking pot August '18. She was 19 at the time. I see the trait of idealizing and devaluing people the strongest. I was her everything and then her enemy. Never got an explanation (I asked) . I see the abandonment fears, perceived and real. My devaluing began when I took a trip to Europe solo and she was at school (she was 19). Threats of suicide and lots of suicidal ideation (unfortunately, this make me hurt for her). She says she has depression and anxiety but the medications (she has been through 5 different combinations) do not help. I feel the medications make her aggressive and not feeling about herself or anyone. I see glimpses of my daughter come back when she is off the medications. She always goes back off and then starts again. I am wondering whether I have it. I have huge issues with abandonment. I will ask my therapist what she thinks when I see her next Monday. Thank you for your feedback. [/QUOTE]
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