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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 155601" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I agree with Witz on this- this situation is causing turmoil for your home and cannot be in the best interest of the kids- along with you. I used to walk this fine line with my family, only to find out that I was being led to my bro's. motives and difficult child being used in the process. difficult child had to go thru months of being yelled at by my bro about how horrible I was and how difficult child's life was going to drastically change before difficult child had the guts to stand up to my bro and then it changed. The sad thing is, it was me that spent years walking on egg-shells trying to make everyone happy instead of talking to difficult child about the reality of it and dealing with it before it got to this point. When things don't add up, our efforts to bite our tongue won't help the situation. I suggest making some subtle changes now- start tapering things off, talk to the kids, ease it to them that your all's lives are much more peaceful without these people being involved.</p><p></p><p>Good luck- I'm sorry you have to deal with it. Just rememeber- it does sound like a situation that won't improve with you biting your tongue and being "compliant".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 155601, member: 3699"] I agree with Witz on this- this situation is causing turmoil for your home and cannot be in the best interest of the kids- along with you. I used to walk this fine line with my family, only to find out that I was being led to my bro's. motives and difficult child being used in the process. difficult child had to go thru months of being yelled at by my bro about how horrible I was and how difficult child's life was going to drastically change before difficult child had the guts to stand up to my bro and then it changed. The sad thing is, it was me that spent years walking on egg-shells trying to make everyone happy instead of talking to difficult child about the reality of it and dealing with it before it got to this point. When things don't add up, our efforts to bite our tongue won't help the situation. I suggest making some subtle changes now- start tapering things off, talk to the kids, ease it to them that your all's lives are much more peaceful without these people being involved. Good luck- I'm sorry you have to deal with it. Just rememeber- it does sound like a situation that won't improve with you biting your tongue and being "compliant". [/QUOTE]
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