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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 625855" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>I would listen to her if she promises to only share with you and not the kids. If you can spare the kids ear to all of this, do it. You can handle this, at least she plans on helping him out.</p><p></p><p>I knew people who had husbands leave them when they were dying or fighting cancer. My oncologist also told me many stories of families who just basically abandon their sick relative, it's sad. If she decided to leave, and you said she should have earlier, then good for her! </p><p></p><p>I know you were happy in a sexless marriage but she isn't. Personally, I would not be either, but I would deal with it because my relationship with husband is more than that and if he were sick, I wouldn't cheat.</p><p></p><p>Who cares about that, anyway? We're all human, don't judge her so harshly, he maybe deserves it. She put up with enough and she made her choice, just love her and don't judge. I really think she shouldn't talk to her kids about this, yuck. Tell her you don't want details, but good for her that she found happiness.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 625855, member: 2668"] I would listen to her if she promises to only share with you and not the kids. If you can spare the kids ear to all of this, do it. You can handle this, at least she plans on helping him out. I knew people who had husbands leave them when they were dying or fighting cancer. My oncologist also told me many stories of families who just basically abandon their sick relative, it's sad. If she decided to leave, and you said she should have earlier, then good for her! I know you were happy in a sexless marriage but she isn't. Personally, I would not be either, but I would deal with it because my relationship with husband is more than that and if he were sick, I wouldn't cheat. Who cares about that, anyway? We're all human, don't judge her so harshly, he maybe deserves it. She put up with enough and she made her choice, just love her and don't judge. I really think she shouldn't talk to her kids about this, yuck. Tell her you don't want details, but good for her that she found happiness. [/QUOTE]
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