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<blockquote data-quote="GoingNorth" data-source="post: 625862" data-attributes="member: 1963"><p>UAN, without going into too much information,husband and I had a fully intimate andfulfilling relationship.</p><p></p><p>One can be very intimate and take pleasure in that intimacy...IF, and it's a big IF:Both members of the relationship are otherwise healthy and very happy.</p><p></p><p>Sis and brother in law should never have gotten together. He was 32 to her sixteen when they got together. Sis was very thrilled to have an older man so interested.</p><p></p><p>For me? There's definitely an "eeewww" factor there. husband put it best, in my opinion:"I'm sure many guys fantasize about the "sweet young thing, but would never think of acting on that fantasy.</p><p></p><p>That's too big an age difference for me. Many 16 year olds see guys in the late teens, early twenties. They fit together nicely because females mature faster than males.</p><p></p><p>With the drinking, if I start getting "drunk dialing" calls from my sister, I'll have to terminate contact by phone unless she again dries out. She's very functional even when she's been drinking.</p><p>I many have a half dozen drinks in a year, and that's pushing it. Sister has an addictive personality and if she gives up one thing, she picks up a different addiction.</p><p></p><p>She turned to pills when she quit doing cocaine,and then to alcohol when she quit with the pills.</p><p></p><p>I saw first hand what legally prescribed painkillers can do as side effects as husband's caretaker. He had intractable pain for last several years of his life.</p><p></p><p>He had to take dexamphetamine to counter the SE from the medication.</p><p></p><p>He was under the mgmt. of a pain clinic. He didn't enjoy taking the pain medications.</p><p></p><p>But, taken properly, the narcotics gave him his life back as much as was possible.</p><p></p><p>I have an addictive personality to some degree, but with me it's more AS obsessions.</p><p></p><p>Nature took care of any addiction issues in my case. I can have one drink. If I have two, I guarantee myself a migraine later that night or the next day.</p><p></p><p>I can't take opiates without the strongest anti-nausea medications.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GoingNorth, post: 625862, member: 1963"] UAN, without going into too much information,husband and I had a fully intimate andfulfilling relationship. One can be very intimate and take pleasure in that intimacy...IF, and it's a big IF:Both members of the relationship are otherwise healthy and very happy. Sis and brother in law should never have gotten together. He was 32 to her sixteen when they got together. Sis was very thrilled to have an older man so interested. For me? There's definitely an "eeewww" factor there. husband put it best, in my opinion:"I'm sure many guys fantasize about the "sweet young thing, but would never think of acting on that fantasy. That's too big an age difference for me. Many 16 year olds see guys in the late teens, early twenties. They fit together nicely because females mature faster than males. With the drinking, if I start getting "drunk dialing" calls from my sister, I'll have to terminate contact by phone unless she again dries out. She's very functional even when she's been drinking. I many have a half dozen drinks in a year, and that's pushing it. Sister has an addictive personality and if she gives up one thing, she picks up a different addiction. She turned to pills when she quit doing cocaine,and then to alcohol when she quit with the pills. I saw first hand what legally prescribed painkillers can do as side effects as husband's caretaker. He had intractable pain for last several years of his life. He had to take dexamphetamine to counter the SE from the medication. He was under the mgmt. of a pain clinic. He didn't enjoy taking the pain medications. But, taken properly, the narcotics gave him his life back as much as was possible. I have an addictive personality to some degree, but with me it's more AS obsessions. Nature took care of any addiction issues in my case. I can have one drink. If I have two, I guarantee myself a migraine later that night or the next day. I can't take opiates without the strongest anti-nausea medications. [/QUOTE]
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