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Boundaries: non existant in her world, will that EVER change???
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 585857" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>My difficult child has never been diagnosed as borderline, but I see so many of the traits in him. He became sexually active at a young age. I was told so by a counselor. He made a porn video with the neighbor when he was in his teens. The neighbors parents found it.</p><p></p><p>The neighbor(s) he made the video with started acting out sexually when she was about 12. I was really shocked when she would come over, and I am not a prude. I had always thought that the girl had been sexually molested by her dad or another close family member. She had 2 kids out of wedlock when a she was a teen and she went on to prostitution. She was very open about it, never tried to hide it at all.</p><p></p><p>Now that I am still doing the 'difficult child dance' with a 34yo, I think both of them have borderline traits. And, as far as I have been in this journey, there is nothing you can do. When my difficult child does inappropriate things he always says, 'Mom you always taught me to not care what other people think'. </p><p></p><p>I did, but not in the way he is doing, they honestly can't tell they are out of line. in my opinion, my difficult child has gotten worse as he get older.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 585857, member: 13558"] My difficult child has never been diagnosed as borderline, but I see so many of the traits in him. He became sexually active at a young age. I was told so by a counselor. He made a porn video with the neighbor when he was in his teens. The neighbors parents found it. The neighbor(s) he made the video with started acting out sexually when she was about 12. I was really shocked when she would come over, and I am not a prude. I had always thought that the girl had been sexually molested by her dad or another close family member. She had 2 kids out of wedlock when a she was a teen and she went on to prostitution. She was very open about it, never tried to hide it at all. Now that I am still doing the 'difficult child dance' with a 34yo, I think both of them have borderline traits. And, as far as I have been in this journey, there is nothing you can do. When my difficult child does inappropriate things he always says, 'Mom you always taught me to not care what other people think'. I did, but not in the way he is doing, they honestly can't tell they are out of line. in my opinion, my difficult child has gotten worse as he get older. [/QUOTE]
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