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<blockquote data-quote="Hopeful97" data-source="post: 673767" data-attributes="member: 19678"><p>My son came to the door this morning in tears because he has a really bad tooth ache. I did not let him in, I stood out on the porch and took a look at his tooth, it is broke off. I know teeth problems are very painful. I gave him what was left of our an be so (oral numbing medicine). There was not very much left. I also gave him a bottle of water and some aspirin. He wanted to talk to hubby, hubby was at store. Son said well I will go sit across the street because I do not want to get arrested for being on the property. Hubby pulled up, son said I am going to ask him for a ride to McDonald's and sit there all day because I do not want to be out in the cold. I told son that there are free clinics he could go to to get tooth and gums looked at (there may be an infection). Son did not ask me for a ride I think because he knows that answer would be no. I am so very sad. If things were different he would have our insurance to get help with his tooth. I know it does not make a difference our dcs ages but I just keep thinking he is only 18. The tears just keep coming. I called my sis she said you are not taking him anywhere right I said no hubby is, she said you are doing the right thing he did this to himself he has shown that he has not changed. My head tells me I am doing the right thing but my heart says help him he is your son. I am so very torn, the tears just keep coming. Hubby will probably be sad most of the day too. I just keep thinking of hubby's words when we were talking to our pastor at the time we were removing our son from our home he told pastor if it was just him and difficult son he would probably let him stay even if he did destroy the house but he understood that we had to make son leave. I am sick to my stomach very nauseous hubby too. This is just the beginning of winter and it is already almost unbearable. I do not know where to turn or what to do that is why I am writing to you all, I need to talk to you all this is so hard. I want to do so much more but know that I can't because nothing has changed. An apology would be nice but will probably never happen. I know son has not changed from the way he acted thanksgiving and from what he posts on facebook. My heart is breaking once again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopeful97, post: 673767, member: 19678"] My son came to the door this morning in tears because he has a really bad tooth ache. I did not let him in, I stood out on the porch and took a look at his tooth, it is broke off. I know teeth problems are very painful. I gave him what was left of our an be so (oral numbing medicine). There was not very much left. I also gave him a bottle of water and some aspirin. He wanted to talk to hubby, hubby was at store. Son said well I will go sit across the street because I do not want to get arrested for being on the property. Hubby pulled up, son said I am going to ask him for a ride to McDonald's and sit there all day because I do not want to be out in the cold. I told son that there are free clinics he could go to to get tooth and gums looked at (there may be an infection). Son did not ask me for a ride I think because he knows that answer would be no. I am so very sad. If things were different he would have our insurance to get help with his tooth. I know it does not make a difference our dcs ages but I just keep thinking he is only 18. The tears just keep coming. I called my sis she said you are not taking him anywhere right I said no hubby is, she said you are doing the right thing he did this to himself he has shown that he has not changed. My head tells me I am doing the right thing but my heart says help him he is your son. I am so very torn, the tears just keep coming. Hubby will probably be sad most of the day too. I just keep thinking of hubby's words when we were talking to our pastor at the time we were removing our son from our home he told pastor if it was just him and difficult son he would probably let him stay even if he did destroy the house but he understood that we had to make son leave. I am sick to my stomach very nauseous hubby too. This is just the beginning of winter and it is already almost unbearable. I do not know where to turn or what to do that is why I am writing to you all, I need to talk to you all this is so hard. I want to do so much more but know that I can't because nothing has changed. An apology would be nice but will probably never happen. I know son has not changed from the way he acted thanksgiving and from what he posts on facebook. My heart is breaking once again. [/QUOTE]
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