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<blockquote data-quote="Hopeful97" data-source="post: 674375" data-attributes="member: 19678"><p>Thank you child of mine, I have written down responses and am sure will be referring to them. </p><p></p><p>Difficult Child texts or calls hubby a couple of times a week. I do not always respond to Difficult Child. Difficult Child tried calling home phone 3 times this morning we did not answer, Difficult Child knocks on the door hubby answers comes back in puts a few things in grocery bag gives it to Difficult Child. I come home from church Difficult Child sitting on front porch while hubby and our oldest put up Christmas decorations . I ask hubby what Difficult Child is doing here he says waiting for a ride, and hubby told Difficult Child he would give him a ride when he was done with decorations. I say not a good idea he will start coming back all the time. I know that sounds mean but I cannot handle being around Difficult Child right now. Sure enough later in the day getting ready to leave and here comes Difficult Child and company (hubby says cronies). We leave hubby says I hope no one breaks in. I ended up giving Difficult Child a ride when he was here waiting for hubby because I just could not handle Difficult Child being around. I told hubby after today Difficult Child will probably start trying to hang around again, so I am resolved if he does not leave I will call police. Told hubby I am not doing anything for him for a while (maybe food now and then) I can not and have been doing really well. Difficult Child texted hubby asking for 10 bucks "he really needs it" hubby said no, so he is coming around so to speak, I think beginning more and more to realize things. Hubby said it is going to be really hard when he comes to door and there is snow on the ground and it is freezing. I said yes it is but he cannot come into our home you can tell him you can take him to a shelter but that is all you can do, I told hubby I am not going to not feel safe in my home again. He totally understands, he said what if he does not go to a shelter just stays outside I said then I will call police and if necessary get another restraining order and this time I will stick to it no contact at all. I learned my lesson. Well that is all just wanted to get this off of my chest. Thanks.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopeful97, post: 674375, member: 19678"] Thank you child of mine, I have written down responses and am sure will be referring to them. Difficult Child texts or calls hubby a couple of times a week. I do not always respond to Difficult Child. Difficult Child tried calling home phone 3 times this morning we did not answer, Difficult Child knocks on the door hubby answers comes back in puts a few things in grocery bag gives it to Difficult Child. I come home from church Difficult Child sitting on front porch while hubby and our oldest put up Christmas decorations . I ask hubby what Difficult Child is doing here he says waiting for a ride, and hubby told Difficult Child he would give him a ride when he was done with decorations. I say not a good idea he will start coming back all the time. I know that sounds mean but I cannot handle being around Difficult Child right now. Sure enough later in the day getting ready to leave and here comes Difficult Child and company (hubby says cronies). We leave hubby says I hope no one breaks in. I ended up giving Difficult Child a ride when he was here waiting for hubby because I just could not handle Difficult Child being around. I told hubby after today Difficult Child will probably start trying to hang around again, so I am resolved if he does not leave I will call police. Told hubby I am not doing anything for him for a while (maybe food now and then) I can not and have been doing really well. Difficult Child texted hubby asking for 10 bucks "he really needs it" hubby said no, so he is coming around so to speak, I think beginning more and more to realize things. Hubby said it is going to be really hard when he comes to door and there is snow on the ground and it is freezing. I said yes it is but he cannot come into our home you can tell him you can take him to a shelter but that is all you can do, I told hubby I am not going to not feel safe in my home again. He totally understands, he said what if he does not go to a shelter just stays outside I said then I will call police and if necessary get another restraining order and this time I will stick to it no contact at all. I learned my lesson. Well that is all just wanted to get this off of my chest. Thanks. [/QUOTE]
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