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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 527204" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>This is a big reason why I was a homeroom mom for as long as my body would allow it. My kids teachers NEVER knew if I was right outside or not. the only ones who EVER had even a tiny problem were ones who abused kids. The shock on the face of the one mainstream teacher when she realized that I had NO problems telling the principal of the disgusting things she said about the kids was priceless. She had always gotten all the special needs kids in her class because she had adopted a special needs child herself (and I feel for that child, greatly). She bullied Jess until she learned i was going to kick her <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> to kingdom come and make her name worse than mud in the district. She did outmaneuver me but I had already sown enough doubt and mistrust that her very short reign as principal at that elem school was a living Hades on earth. She finally went WAY too far with a friend's daughter, not knowing I had shown them how to get proof by getting a copy of the IEP two months AFTER it was signed (idiot hag changed it, NOT learnng from the disaster that I made of the career of the middle school teacher who did that to Wiz) and they dragged her through so much - she left town and is now living on her pitiful savings because she cannot get another job anywhere NEAR children. We have attached things to her records and any google search of her name pulls up facts about things she has been proven to have done and now even places like various tutoring places who are not known to do thorough background checks won't touch her. She applied at a Walmart to be a greeter last I heard. Imagine her surprise when she went to ask about her application and the hiring mgr was a former student who wouldn't let them even discuss her app - she can't be trusted around kids or anyone vulnerable was what the former student said to the store mgr (who I know).</p><p></p><p>It is priceless and wonderful when these people get what they are asking for, and it is sad that it takes so long. I think every contract should state that if going to trial for an offense, any pay is held in trust. It is hard for those who are innocent, and I do know people who have been in that spot, but sadly it is what is needed. Or, if they do get paid and are found guilty of ANYTHING then they should have to pay ALL of that $ back.</p><p></p><p>People who prey on the weak should be taken out and flogged then killed. Brutal it is, but it would send a very clear message. One that needs to be sent. You shouldn't get away with brutalizing a child or anyone vulnerable, ever. Sadly, too many sick people are attracted to that position because they can hold power over the vulnerable. I have no problems running some people lke that out. It just takes too long most times and kids end up really hurt. Heck, I think Kathy Lee Gifford shoudl be run out. There is actually a youtube video of her making an autistic kid cry - it was awful and she was horrible. i t was a tribute to a high school kid who purposely sat with an autistic boy who was being ostracized at lunch and made friends with him - in and out of school friends. But she kept pointing out how nice the boy was because how autistic and different the younger boy was and she made the boy cry. It was just wrong.</p><p></p><p>Sadly, Star, too often a lawyer will just tell you there isn't anything you can do. Even if you know htere is, or the atty knows there is, they will tell you there isn't because they don't want to bother or go up against a school district. To sue our local SD when Wiz was in 6th gr, the other parents had to get an out of state atty and pay for all the travel time to do the filings and everything. It cost a LOT and the SD had to pay it, but the SD had already taken steps to make double dang sure that NO atty in this area and most in the state would not ever take a case against them Tehy just make it politically uncomfortable for the atty who takes the case. Finding an atty that won't bow to the pressure AND has passed the state bar is not easy. So parents who don't know someone or have resources to find someone have to do what they can. an article in the Huffpost will probably get them an atty, but with-o that video that tipped their hand, they might NEVER have gotten the attn of an atty who would do it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 527204, member: 1233"] This is a big reason why I was a homeroom mom for as long as my body would allow it. My kids teachers NEVER knew if I was right outside or not. the only ones who EVER had even a tiny problem were ones who abused kids. The shock on the face of the one mainstream teacher when she realized that I had NO problems telling the principal of the disgusting things she said about the kids was priceless. She had always gotten all the special needs kids in her class because she had adopted a special needs child herself (and I feel for that child, greatly). She bullied Jess until she learned i was going to kick her :censored2: to kingdom come and make her name worse than mud in the district. She did outmaneuver me but I had already sown enough doubt and mistrust that her very short reign as principal at that elem school was a living Hades on earth. She finally went WAY too far with a friend's daughter, not knowing I had shown them how to get proof by getting a copy of the IEP two months AFTER it was signed (idiot hag changed it, NOT learnng from the disaster that I made of the career of the middle school teacher who did that to Wiz) and they dragged her through so much - she left town and is now living on her pitiful savings because she cannot get another job anywhere NEAR children. We have attached things to her records and any google search of her name pulls up facts about things she has been proven to have done and now even places like various tutoring places who are not known to do thorough background checks won't touch her. She applied at a Walmart to be a greeter last I heard. Imagine her surprise when she went to ask about her application and the hiring mgr was a former student who wouldn't let them even discuss her app - she can't be trusted around kids or anyone vulnerable was what the former student said to the store mgr (who I know). It is priceless and wonderful when these people get what they are asking for, and it is sad that it takes so long. I think every contract should state that if going to trial for an offense, any pay is held in trust. It is hard for those who are innocent, and I do know people who have been in that spot, but sadly it is what is needed. Or, if they do get paid and are found guilty of ANYTHING then they should have to pay ALL of that $ back. People who prey on the weak should be taken out and flogged then killed. Brutal it is, but it would send a very clear message. One that needs to be sent. You shouldn't get away with brutalizing a child or anyone vulnerable, ever. Sadly, too many sick people are attracted to that position because they can hold power over the vulnerable. I have no problems running some people lke that out. It just takes too long most times and kids end up really hurt. Heck, I think Kathy Lee Gifford shoudl be run out. There is actually a youtube video of her making an autistic kid cry - it was awful and she was horrible. i t was a tribute to a high school kid who purposely sat with an autistic boy who was being ostracized at lunch and made friends with him - in and out of school friends. But she kept pointing out how nice the boy was because how autistic and different the younger boy was and she made the boy cry. It was just wrong. Sadly, Star, too often a lawyer will just tell you there isn't anything you can do. Even if you know htere is, or the atty knows there is, they will tell you there isn't because they don't want to bother or go up against a school district. To sue our local SD when Wiz was in 6th gr, the other parents had to get an out of state atty and pay for all the travel time to do the filings and everything. It cost a LOT and the SD had to pay it, but the SD had already taken steps to make double dang sure that NO atty in this area and most in the state would not ever take a case against them Tehy just make it politically uncomfortable for the atty who takes the case. Finding an atty that won't bow to the pressure AND has passed the state bar is not easy. So parents who don't know someone or have resources to find someone have to do what they can. an article in the Huffpost will probably get them an atty, but with-o that video that tipped their hand, they might NEVER have gotten the attn of an atty who would do it. [/QUOTE]
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