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But I don't like your rules
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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 240837" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>Both giving in or using power /insiting on your way are both win-lose situations. Internalization usually takes place where the kid has bben helped to problem solve and take perspectives. One parent may perceive the other parent giving in - it could be he is not interested in a power struggle , he would prefer to try and problem solve and work through an issue rather than insisting on a behavior , he may feel dealing with the issue has a negative effect on the parent child relationship. I recently heard a therapist share a parent's description of a child , the therapist then asked the mother - what kind of relationship do you have with your child. Sometimes we are so busy with rules and behaviors that we forget to work on the relationship.</p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 240837, member: 10"] Hi, Both giving in or using power /insiting on your way are both win-lose situations. Internalization usually takes place where the kid has bben helped to problem solve and take perspectives. One parent may perceive the other parent giving in - it could be he is not interested in a power struggle , he would prefer to try and problem solve and work through an issue rather than insisting on a behavior , he may feel dealing with the issue has a negative effect on the parent child relationship. I recently heard a therapist share a parent's description of a child , the therapist then asked the mother - what kind of relationship do you have with your child. Sometimes we are so busy with rules and behaviors that we forget to work on the relationship. Allan [/QUOTE]
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