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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 241479" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi,</p><p></p><p>Marg - if one has a fixed mindset for sure she can't .... , if one has a growth mindset one starts to learn how to take perspectives , that is what the explosive child is all about , helping kids who have these missing skills.</p><p></p><p>If a kid is a con artist - this requires quite a lot of thinking skills , foresight etc so the problem is trust , in order to get my needs met I need to do xyz instead of seeking cooperation. In general the so-called con artists don't seem to be doing well and seem to meeting their needs in a most maladaptive way. </p><p></p><p>education is a process , building trust is a process, emotional growth is a process.</p><p></p><p>I have been here since 2001 . On the whole kids benefit less when the approach is relying on medication and treating symptoms with behavior mod. It means having positive young adults , mentors and most important good peers . The only consequence that works is finding a placement out of the home , it works by moving the problem out of the home </p><p></p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 241479, member: 10"] Hi, Marg - if one has a fixed mindset for sure she can't .... , if one has a growth mindset one starts to learn how to take perspectives , that is what the explosive child is all about , helping kids who have these missing skills. If a kid is a con artist - this requires quite a lot of thinking skills , foresight etc so the problem is trust , in order to get my needs met I need to do xyz instead of seeking cooperation. In general the so-called con artists don't seem to be doing well and seem to meeting their needs in a most maladaptive way. education is a process , building trust is a process, emotional growth is a process. I have been here since 2001 . On the whole kids benefit less when the approach is relying on medication and treating symptoms with behavior mod. It means having positive young adults , mentors and most important good peers . The only consequence that works is finding a placement out of the home , it works by moving the problem out of the home Allan [/QUOTE]
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