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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 615505" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Echolette, you appear to be negotiating the detachment highway well. I think as we learn to let go more and more, the decisions we make concerning our difficult child's get easier and don't cause us as much internal struggle. You are getting the facts, considering how much you are willing to help and what you are not willing to do and accepting the outcome as something he has to deal with as the result of his choices. I think we get better and better at that as the process of our letting go of control and learning to accept what is really kicks in. </p><p></p><p>I think it's good that you won't be at court with him. </p><p></p><p>As we do here, you are letting go and seeing where you were trying to hold on............being able to see that gives us the power to change it, and that is really the nut of it. Good job.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 615505, member: 13542"] Echolette, you appear to be negotiating the detachment highway well. I think as we learn to let go more and more, the decisions we make concerning our difficult child's get easier and don't cause us as much internal struggle. You are getting the facts, considering how much you are willing to help and what you are not willing to do and accepting the outcome as something he has to deal with as the result of his choices. I think we get better and better at that as the process of our letting go of control and learning to accept what is really kicks in. I think it's good that you won't be at court with him. As we do here, you are letting go and seeing where you were trying to hold on............being able to see that gives us the power to change it, and that is really the nut of it. Good job. [/QUOTE]
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