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Can you help me with my son?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 297027" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If he's of age, he can find his father. I'm a big believer in the truth because I believe the truth will always come out anyway and your son will NEVER trust you again if you hold back on him. He's not a little boy. BUT...I'd go to a psychologist who specializes in complicated living situations/adoption and have him help you tell the story to your boy. I would not undertake this alone. I have four adopted kids who know everything that I know and some of it isn't very pretty, but they have ALWAYS known so the truth grew up with them. However, there was nothing as horrible as rape. Are you positive this child is the product of rape? You confused me a bit because you said you were kind of wild after it happened...if so, is another boy the father? </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry your mother was so ignorant and selfish through your pain. I hope others can help you too. This is not something I would undertake alone, but it I also would not keep any information I knew from my child considering the fact that others know about it too and it is better coming from you first than from somebody else in a possibly malicious and shocking way. Anyhow, that's what I'd do. (((Hugs))) Welcome to the board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 297027, member: 1550"] If he's of age, he can find his father. I'm a big believer in the truth because I believe the truth will always come out anyway and your son will NEVER trust you again if you hold back on him. He's not a little boy. BUT...I'd go to a psychologist who specializes in complicated living situations/adoption and have him help you tell the story to your boy. I would not undertake this alone. I have four adopted kids who know everything that I know and some of it isn't very pretty, but they have ALWAYS known so the truth grew up with them. However, there was nothing as horrible as rape. Are you positive this child is the product of rape? You confused me a bit because you said you were kind of wild after it happened...if so, is another boy the father? I'm sorry your mother was so ignorant and selfish through your pain. I hope others can help you too. This is not something I would undertake alone, but it I also would not keep any information I knew from my child considering the fact that others know about it too and it is better coming from you first than from somebody else in a possibly malicious and shocking way. Anyhow, that's what I'd do. (((Hugs))) Welcome to the board. [/QUOTE]
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