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cant get no help with my 4 yr old out of control
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<blockquote data-quote="nonya" data-source="post: 542092" data-attributes="member: 14947"><p>Hello and thank you very much for info. It's funny you mentioned about a losing someone in her life at an early age might be cause. Her dad passed away when she was one and my dad passed away when she was 2. My current husband came into her life when she was 2. I did notice after my dad passed away she had a hard time bonding with men and it was only mommy she could trust. Around 3 she started trusting my husband more and actually started caring on a real father daughter relationship. I never though this to be the problem because of her being so young and I just figured she didn't remember any of it. We do talk about grandpa and daddy a lot and let her know her daddy loves her just the same. My husband is very careful to show no favoritism between the girls. I am really glad you brought this possibility up because I would never have though to bring it to a professionals attention. My doctor does know about this situation but still claimed she is normal. I am going to insist on a referral though. Someone told me to try to go through her school for a test. So we got an appointment at her school to enroll her and talk further about haveing her evaluated. So I am keeping fingers crossed they will do it.</p><p></p><p>It's no joke that typical discipline doesn't work on her. I hope to gain some discipline idea or parenting ideas as we wait. I'm afraid at this point any normal discipline will crush her spirit or cause her emotional damage. I'm just so afraid now of making mistakes and furthering her situation because I don't have the professional help yet. This is so hard and confusing, I feel lost.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nonya, post: 542092, member: 14947"] Hello and thank you very much for info. It's funny you mentioned about a losing someone in her life at an early age might be cause. Her dad passed away when she was one and my dad passed away when she was 2. My current husband came into her life when she was 2. I did notice after my dad passed away she had a hard time bonding with men and it was only mommy she could trust. Around 3 she started trusting my husband more and actually started caring on a real father daughter relationship. I never though this to be the problem because of her being so young and I just figured she didn't remember any of it. We do talk about grandpa and daddy a lot and let her know her daddy loves her just the same. My husband is very careful to show no favoritism between the girls. I am really glad you brought this possibility up because I would never have though to bring it to a professionals attention. My doctor does know about this situation but still claimed she is normal. I am going to insist on a referral though. Someone told me to try to go through her school for a test. So we got an appointment at her school to enroll her and talk further about haveing her evaluated. So I am keeping fingers crossed they will do it. It's no joke that typical discipline doesn't work on her. I hope to gain some discipline idea or parenting ideas as we wait. I'm afraid at this point any normal discipline will crush her spirit or cause her emotional damage. I'm just so afraid now of making mistakes and furthering her situation because I don't have the professional help yet. This is so hard and confusing, I feel lost. [/QUOTE]
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