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Can't go into psychiatric hospital and too sick to function without daily help. Any suggestions?
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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 307845" data-attributes="member: 3"><p>MWM, I'll be one of those who post to a deleted post. </p><p>Your d i l doesn't care for you. So what? It doesn't mean you need to fear her. She is flesh and blood and if you don't get involved, you should have no reason to fear her. Let's face, no one likes everyone and some of us more ummm blunt talkers probably aren't the first on the invitation list to parties. </p><p>It's not your job to fix your son or his marriage. It's not your job to be the apple of d i l's eye. </p><p>It is nature that children leave the nest and move on. Some stay closer than others but they must in the end move on to be healthy and normal. </p><p></p><p>As far as members liking or not liking you seems a bit unfair. There are many of us who are very aware of your posts and are kind and try to be helpful and supportive. Not everyone agrees here and they shouldn't. Not everyone is very good at how they word things and probably not everyone loves you to pieces but you have a core group who care for you and appreciate your insights. </p><p>I hope you are just in place where everything seems bleak instead of really thinking we are not in your corner. </p><p>As far as cigs, it's a battle for them and not one you can fight for him. </p><p>Don't be terrified of d i l. She is just an unhappy woman. I never saw a woman going through divorce or marital problems who wasn't a little tense and wound tighter than a spring. Don't give her super powers. What's the worst she can do that she hasn't already done? You will survive this and you will survive her. No way would I let a person who is miserable make me be part of that misery. She brought it on herself. </p><p>Walk away, be polite and put your love and support to your grandson if possible. Let the two adults hammer things out.</p><p>If d i l acts like a horse's patootie, we will all be happy to come over and duct tape her to a chair and give her a piece of our minds.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 307845, member: 3"] MWM, I'll be one of those who post to a deleted post. Your d i l doesn't care for you. So what? It doesn't mean you need to fear her. She is flesh and blood and if you don't get involved, you should have no reason to fear her. Let's face, no one likes everyone and some of us more ummm blunt talkers probably aren't the first on the invitation list to parties. It's not your job to fix your son or his marriage. It's not your job to be the apple of d i l's eye. It is nature that children leave the nest and move on. Some stay closer than others but they must in the end move on to be healthy and normal. As far as members liking or not liking you seems a bit unfair. There are many of us who are very aware of your posts and are kind and try to be helpful and supportive. Not everyone agrees here and they shouldn't. Not everyone is very good at how they word things and probably not everyone loves you to pieces but you have a core group who care for you and appreciate your insights. I hope you are just in place where everything seems bleak instead of really thinking we are not in your corner. As far as cigs, it's a battle for them and not one you can fight for him. Don't be terrified of d i l. She is just an unhappy woman. I never saw a woman going through divorce or marital problems who wasn't a little tense and wound tighter than a spring. Don't give her super powers. What's the worst she can do that she hasn't already done? You will survive this and you will survive her. No way would I let a person who is miserable make me be part of that misery. She brought it on herself. Walk away, be polite and put your love and support to your grandson if possible. Let the two adults hammer things out. If d i l acts like a horse's patootie, we will all be happy to come over and duct tape her to a chair and give her a piece of our minds. [/QUOTE]
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