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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 753676" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>If it were me, I would probably let son have till the end of the year to get a loan on the car (since that is what you have agreed on) and let the rest go.</p><p></p><p>If, on December 31st (or whatever the last banking day of the year is) if there is no loan by 5pm, I would take the keys. The car would need to be restored to the way it was when he received it, even if he (or you) must pay for professional cleaning.</p><p></p><p>Then it goes up for sale and be done with it.</p><p></p><p>And, then needs to find his way to work on his own.</p><p></p><p>My husband, back in the old days, would fall into the trap of trying to fix his sons’ problems by making a plan, executing it, and expecting his sons to follow through. It never worked well, caused a lot of problems and hurt their relationship in the long run.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 753676, member: 16024"] If it were me, I would probably let son have till the end of the year to get a loan on the car (since that is what you have agreed on) and let the rest go. If, on December 31st (or whatever the last banking day of the year is) if there is no loan by 5pm, I would take the keys. The car would need to be restored to the way it was when he received it, even if he (or you) must pay for professional cleaning. Then it goes up for sale and be done with it. And, then needs to find his way to work on his own. My husband, back in the old days, would fall into the trap of trying to fix his sons’ problems by making a plan, executing it, and expecting his sons to follow through. It never worked well, caused a lot of problems and hurt their relationship in the long run. [/QUOTE]
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