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<blockquote data-quote="Blindsided" data-source="post: 753679" data-attributes="member: 23811"><p>I learned this one decades ago.</p><p></p><p>Identify offensive behavior with your son.</p><p></p><p>Ask him, if you were approaching this behavior for someone else, what consequences seem reasonable? </p><p></p><p>It clarifies the person is being heard. It helps the person see ownership in the behavior. Their consequences are probably not strong enough, but we can negotiate. I learned this technique when my son was in youth diversion as a teen. I wish I would have seen the need with my Difficult Child daughter. She was the easy child, or so I thought.</p><p></p><p>I hope I made sense.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Blindsided, post: 753679, member: 23811"] I learned this one decades ago. Identify offensive behavior with your son. Ask him, if you were approaching this behavior for someone else, what consequences seem reasonable? It clarifies the person is being heard. It helps the person see ownership in the behavior. Their consequences are probably not strong enough, but we can negotiate. I learned this technique when my son was in youth diversion as a teen. I wish I would have seen the need with my Difficult Child daughter. She was the easy child, or so I thought. I hope I made sense. [/QUOTE]
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