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Child support check two weeks late and ex won't give any money
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 552591" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>She's not going to go to the school for help. She works there. Her Mom is well known as a retired counselor there.</p><p>Nope that choice ain't going to happen and I understand that.</p><p></p><p>on the other hand I remember supporting my Mom plus the three kids and having a commission check get delayed for a month. I ran a frugal household but knew I couldn't get thru with-o money. That was the one and only time I called Ex and asked if he could mail my chld support check ($150 a month by the way) early. His reply was "sorry but we just bought some new horses and feeding them is expensive too". </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/grrr.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":grrr:" title="grrr :grrr:" data-shortname=":grrr:" /></p><p>What I did wouldn't be possible in 2012. But using collateral I got a very short term loan so we got by. I then began my seach for part time second jobs so I could build up a buffer. I'm sorry you are having a hard time.</p><p></p><p>by the way, once this passes look more closely at where your income is going. It sounds as though you aren't extravagant but if you live in a modest apartment with three people it's hard to believe your income is too high to qualify for assistance. I personally know people who have easily gotten emergency food stamps regardless of income, churches that dispense food banks, government surplus distributions that I believe are Nationwide (thru County gov't here) and churches that help on a one time basis with electric bills or gas needed for work. I believe the help is there and when you are alone on your lunch break use your cell and seek out assistance to get you over the hump. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 552591, member: 35"] She's not going to go to the school for help. She works there. Her Mom is well known as a retired counselor there. Nope that choice ain't going to happen and I understand that. on the other hand I remember supporting my Mom plus the three kids and having a commission check get delayed for a month. I ran a frugal household but knew I couldn't get thru with-o money. That was the one and only time I called Ex and asked if he could mail my chld support check ($150 a month by the way) early. His reply was "sorry but we just bought some new horses and feeding them is expensive too". :grrr: What I did wouldn't be possible in 2012. But using collateral I got a very short term loan so we got by. I then began my seach for part time second jobs so I could build up a buffer. I'm sorry you are having a hard time. by the way, once this passes look more closely at where your income is going. It sounds as though you aren't extravagant but if you live in a modest apartment with three people it's hard to believe your income is too high to qualify for assistance. I personally know people who have easily gotten emergency food stamps regardless of income, churches that dispense food banks, government surplus distributions that I believe are Nationwide (thru County gov't here) and churches that help on a one time basis with electric bills or gas needed for work. I believe the help is there and when you are alone on your lunch break use your cell and seek out assistance to get you over the hump. DDD [/QUOTE]
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