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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 536020" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>After being in a very similar situation a few month back, I had to really explain to V what a friend is and does. AND what a friend does not. I made practice on how to reply when this other boy would insult him. It took quite a few night of practice but one day he stood up for himself "if you want to play with me, you can't call me names. Otherwise, leave me alone". We taught him to have the right tone also. And I wrote a social story that we read every day for a bout 1 month.</p><p>I did not talk to the mother (who I know so talking with her would have been easy) but I did talk to the teacher about what was going on. I even had to have a tough talk with her at on point on she scolded V and told him "we are all friends". She had V so confused that he was crying. I was furious and made it really clear that she was not to say anything like that to V again. We don't live in an idealistic world and it was V's right to refuse to play and be friend with a boy who insulted him on a daily basis. The assistant was quite good though and kept an eye on them and made sure things were under control.</p><p>It worked for us. I can e-mail you the social story if you want.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 536020, member: 11847"] After being in a very similar situation a few month back, I had to really explain to V what a friend is and does. AND what a friend does not. I made practice on how to reply when this other boy would insult him. It took quite a few night of practice but one day he stood up for himself "if you want to play with me, you can't call me names. Otherwise, leave me alone". We taught him to have the right tone also. And I wrote a social story that we read every day for a bout 1 month. I did not talk to the mother (who I know so talking with her would have been easy) but I did talk to the teacher about what was going on. I even had to have a tough talk with her at on point on she scolded V and told him "we are all friends". She had V so confused that he was crying. I was furious and made it really clear that she was not to say anything like that to V again. We don't live in an idealistic world and it was V's right to refuse to play and be friend with a boy who insulted him on a daily basis. The assistant was quite good though and kept an eye on them and made sure things were under control. It worked for us. I can e-mail you the social story if you want. [/QUOTE]
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