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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 761449" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>The Nar Anon program is amazing. I love how they emphasize that we are powerless over our children and that we can only take care of ourselves. It is so freeing to realize that we have no control. In Nar Anon I was able to stop getting involved in my daughter's life and to give her to God AND to take care of myself first. Without this program I may still be thinking that I know there is something I can do to change my daughter's life. I would have no life of my own because I truly believed that others made me happy, that if my daughter didn't love me a lot and if she was not doing well in life that it was selfish of me to move on and enjoy my life. A.lot of people do feel this way and I am very sad for them. Our being in grief forever does not help our child and we have no quality if life ourselves.</p><p></p><p>I owe all my happiness to this program. I thought it was going to teach me how to help my daughter. Instead it helped me learn how to love and take care of myself....and mind my own business....we can not helicopter our kids. They won't let us.</p><p></p><p>It is very hard to explain to people not in program. </p><p></p><p>I love Nar Anon!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 761449, member: 23706"] The Nar Anon program is amazing. I love how they emphasize that we are powerless over our children and that we can only take care of ourselves. It is so freeing to realize that we have no control. In Nar Anon I was able to stop getting involved in my daughter's life and to give her to God AND to take care of myself first. Without this program I may still be thinking that I know there is something I can do to change my daughter's life. I would have no life of my own because I truly believed that others made me happy, that if my daughter didn't love me a lot and if she was not doing well in life that it was selfish of me to move on and enjoy my life. A.lot of people do feel this way and I am very sad for them. Our being in grief forever does not help our child and we have no quality if life ourselves. I owe all my happiness to this program. I thought it was going to teach me how to help my daughter. Instead it helped me learn how to love and take care of myself....and mind my own business....we can not helicopter our kids. They won't let us. It is very hard to explain to people not in program. I love Nar Anon!!! [/QUOTE]
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