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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 687437" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>You are right, guilt is not helpful. I will work on that and try to find peace. I still feel in my heart of hearts that things went incredibly wrong in the hospital. I think I will be using that energy to work towards learning more of the condition and building awareness. </p><p>There<em> is so much to be done</em>, including getting assistance for my son to deal with the loss of his dad at this tender age. My girls are an amazing help to us and it is good that Hoku is here. We will carry on and grow stronger because we owe it to hubs and his dedication to his family. </p><p>Tornado has come around, still fraught with her own difficulties. We have had some tearful exchanges, I suppose which is good in comparison to no contact. I let her know that I love her and the grands dearly, but there were lines crossed many times and I have boundaries. Only time will tell on how she chooses to live her life. </p><p>Rain is still drifting in her own world. </p><p>It is up to the both of them to figure out what they want to make out of the rest of their lives. </p><p>It is a great loss suffered, I do so cherish the good times we both had together. Not too many people of my generation have remained married for so long. It is strange not having hubs physically present. A void, an emptiness, a chasm. </p><p>Thank you all for your words of support, understanding and hugs. I am very busy for the next few weeks preparing for this and that, but will check in when I can. </p><p>Love to all of you. </p><p>I pray Akua watch over all of us and comfort us in our times of need. </p><p>Please make sure that you have your papers in order, will, advance directive, etc. no matter what age, time and unforeseen circumstance may befall upon any one of us. </p><p>Mahalo nui friends.</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 687437, member: 19522"] You are right, guilt is not helpful. I will work on that and try to find peace. I still feel in my heart of hearts that things went incredibly wrong in the hospital. I think I will be using that energy to work towards learning more of the condition and building awareness. There[I] is so much to be done[/I], including getting assistance for my son to deal with the loss of his dad at this tender age. My girls are an amazing help to us and it is good that Hoku is here. We will carry on and grow stronger because we owe it to hubs and his dedication to his family. Tornado has come around, still fraught with her own difficulties. We have had some tearful exchanges, I suppose which is good in comparison to no contact. I let her know that I love her and the grands dearly, but there were lines crossed many times and I have boundaries. Only time will tell on how she chooses to live her life. Rain is still drifting in her own world. It is up to the both of them to figure out what they want to make out of the rest of their lives. It is a great loss suffered, I do so cherish the good times we both had together. Not too many people of my generation have remained married for so long. It is strange not having hubs physically present. A void, an emptiness, a chasm. Thank you all for your words of support, understanding and hugs. I am very busy for the next few weeks preparing for this and that, but will check in when I can. Love to all of you. I pray Akua watch over all of us and comfort us in our times of need. Please make sure that you have your papers in order, will, advance directive, etc. no matter what age, time and unforeseen circumstance may befall upon any one of us. Mahalo nui friends. (((HUGS))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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