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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 687439" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>New Leaf. That is the nature of hospitals, I believe their essential function is to contain disasters and give them another name.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes they even cause them. My mother died of a hospital based infection that rendered useless any antibiotic. I think of this as a gift. I have said it before. Her love of life was so great she needed the big guns to come after her. And I needed them too. I do not know why this story gives me such comfort, but it does. I could not have dealt *and did not deal with the guilt of deciding that she die. *You see, I blame myself that I did not decide to let her go. </p><p></p><p>Your husband chose, New Leaf. He chose to go home one last time. He had known for a while. He was preparing. Who can question him?</p><p></p><p>There are many blessings in his story. He worked until the end. He was purposeful and conscious. He was unwavering in his responsibilities.You shared with us once that he sought you physically, undeterred until the end. As much as any of us do in these matters, he decided. And he lived life on his terms. How blessed is that? Nobody can determine the tragedies that befall us. We can determine our response. He did.</p><p></p><p>There are many blessings in your husband's life. And in your own.</p><p></p><p>There is no right way to respond to what you went through. You were in an impossible situation without a good choice. Nonetheless, you chose responsibly and bravely. Nobody alive would have known the best choice. Because there was none. Anybody who says there was is lying.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 687439, member: 18958"] New Leaf. That is the nature of hospitals, I believe their essential function is to contain disasters and give them another name. Sometimes they even cause them. My mother died of a hospital based infection that rendered useless any antibiotic. I think of this as a gift. I have said it before. Her love of life was so great she needed the big guns to come after her. And I needed them too. I do not know why this story gives me such comfort, but it does. I could not have dealt *and did not deal with the guilt of deciding that she die. *You see, I blame myself that I did not decide to let her go. Your husband chose, New Leaf. He chose to go home one last time. He had known for a while. He was preparing. Who can question him? There are many blessings in his story. He worked until the end. He was purposeful and conscious. He was unwavering in his responsibilities.You shared with us once that he sought you physically, undeterred until the end. As much as any of us do in these matters, he decided. And he lived life on his terms. How blessed is that? Nobody can determine the tragedies that befall us. We can determine our response. He did. There are many blessings in your husband's life. And in your own. There is no right way to respond to what you went through. You were in an impossible situation without a good choice. Nonetheless, you chose responsibly and bravely. Nobody alive would have known the best choice. Because there was none. Anybody who says there was is lying. [/QUOTE]
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