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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 765031" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Thank you Dazedandconfused. You have had your hands full with you son but also having gone through leukemia with your daughter. I am happy to hear she is doing ok.</em></p><p><em>Lovemysons. Thank you for your continue support. I am sure you are finding many ways to honor your son. It is always healing to do things for their spirit.</em></p><p><em>New Leaf, Your insight was wonderful. My husbands relative came. I knew my husband would need help with driving back and forth to the airport, cooking meals and making his relative comfortable. Well miracles of miracles happened. The relative has been blessed with a grandchild that has severe disabilities so he has grown spiritually a lot. He wanted to make amends. He wanted peace. He was not the person I knew that would talk down to you or be so distracted he could not be bothered with what ever we had to say. He did say that now that he has this grandchild, he had no idea how trying or awful it is to have a child that is not healthy.. Like many people that I meet, they are appaulled at their own behavior of how they treated us because they had no idea what it is like. I have been through this many times with people until it happens to them. So we talked, really talked, no surface BS. Because of all the dysfuntion of 'covering it up' and acting like nothing happened especially after they abuse you and then say 'it's because you are so sensitive'. </em></p><p><em>Nothing like an ill child to bring a person to their knees.</em></p><p><em>But in true fashion of his family, we can have a good visit and the next time they see you they are mean as a devil. But for some reason I think there will NOT be any back tracking with him. I did tell him that what I saw from his family is pure evil. He did not deny it. So as far as that particular relative is concerned the air is cleared with both my husband, myself and our daughter.</em></p><p><em>Our daughter at first did not want to come over, but she ended up coming over and they had a good visit. My daughter brought over a large chocolate Easter egg, it came with a little hammer and when you hit it open it was filled with candies. I never saw anything like that. So I had a good Easter. Good as I can considering my son's death date just passed and it is alway hard. I enjoyed the peace while it was there.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 765031, member: 22416"] [I]Thank you Dazedandconfused. You have had your hands full with you son but also having gone through leukemia with your daughter. I am happy to hear she is doing ok. Lovemysons. Thank you for your continue support. I am sure you are finding many ways to honor your son. It is always healing to do things for their spirit. New Leaf, Your insight was wonderful. My husbands relative came. I knew my husband would need help with driving back and forth to the airport, cooking meals and making his relative comfortable. Well miracles of miracles happened. The relative has been blessed with a grandchild that has severe disabilities so he has grown spiritually a lot. He wanted to make amends. He wanted peace. He was not the person I knew that would talk down to you or be so distracted he could not be bothered with what ever we had to say. He did say that now that he has this grandchild, he had no idea how trying or awful it is to have a child that is not healthy.. Like many people that I meet, they are appaulled at their own behavior of how they treated us because they had no idea what it is like. I have been through this many times with people until it happens to them. So we talked, really talked, no surface BS. Because of all the dysfuntion of 'covering it up' and acting like nothing happened especially after they abuse you and then say 'it's because you are so sensitive'. Nothing like an ill child to bring a person to their knees. But in true fashion of his family, we can have a good visit and the next time they see you they are mean as a devil. But for some reason I think there will NOT be any back tracking with him. I did tell him that what I saw from his family is pure evil. He did not deny it. So as far as that particular relative is concerned the air is cleared with both my husband, myself and our daughter. Our daughter at first did not want to come over, but she ended up coming over and they had a good visit. My daughter brought over a large chocolate Easter egg, it came with a little hammer and when you hit it open it was filled with candies. I never saw anything like that. So I had a good Easter. Good as I can considering my son's death date just passed and it is alway hard. I enjoyed the peace while it was there.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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