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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 177879" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>LOL...I wish I did have helpful advice. I keep telling my husband to hold me but that wouldnt work for a grown child. He doesnt think it would work for me either when I get in one of my fits but I dont know. I might get mad at the moment but...ya know? </p><p></p><p>There is an excellent book called Stop walking on eggshells which I havent read because everyone who IS borderline says that it is mean to borderlines...lol...so I havent read it. I may do it one day though because I seem to be on the more rational edge of borderline...maybe my age. I can actually see my faults pretty darn clearly. </p><p></p><p>I still have trouble with trust and lashing out when I am in pain. Or perceived pain. I want others to hurt first. I havent cut in awhile but I still have intense anger issues that manifest in the same intense feelings. I hit, yell, pound walls. I can be quite the handful. Its not pretty in a woman of my age. And yes, then I am the sobbing mess wondering why I cant just die or why someone cant just kill me and put us all out of this misery.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 177879, member: 1514"] LOL...I wish I did have helpful advice. I keep telling my husband to hold me but that wouldnt work for a grown child. He doesnt think it would work for me either when I get in one of my fits but I dont know. I might get mad at the moment but...ya know? There is an excellent book called Stop walking on eggshells which I havent read because everyone who IS borderline says that it is mean to borderlines...lol...so I havent read it. I may do it one day though because I seem to be on the more rational edge of borderline...maybe my age. I can actually see my faults pretty darn clearly. I still have trouble with trust and lashing out when I am in pain. Or perceived pain. I want others to hurt first. I havent cut in awhile but I still have intense anger issues that manifest in the same intense feelings. I hit, yell, pound walls. I can be quite the handful. Its not pretty in a woman of my age. And yes, then I am the sobbing mess wondering why I cant just die or why someone cant just kill me and put us all out of this misery. [/QUOTE]
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