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<blockquote data-quote="pacific ocean" data-source="post: 705156" data-attributes="member: 21010"><p>Update: the credit card of the Difficult Child has been canceled but just before this took place, the Difficult Child had already spent around $700 and the unpaid bill came here to the home address overseas. The Difficult Child emailed back and asked if we would take care of it. We won't. Also, our Difficult Child now is a man. The child publicly announced she was a man after all even thought she was a non gender confirming gender person a month ago. My mother received a letter of the announcement. He/she has a new name and said he feels better than ever and is proud of being a man. A typical Borderline (BPD)? It has hurt and confused many people who are close to us. Surprisingly, actually many of them congratulated her for this come out and we are the horrible parents who have no understanding regarding her long suffering of GID. Some stopped talking to us after her/he coming out.</p><p></p><p>Well, this has nothing to do with the Difficult Child's gender confusion, however, with the cc abuse, my husband finally said we should not support Difficult Child's college tuition for next year and sent email. The Difficult Child sent him back a business report like letter back saying we can't do that legally because... We checked the FA section at the Uni's site and yes, she/he is our dependent when she/he applied so we are responsible for her tuition. According to his/her report on this issue, we would have to make a legal action in the US to change/prove the new status, her/him not being our dependent. </p><p></p><p>Could anyone give us any advise on this?</p><p></p><p>If we just don't pay, will we just get a bill after a bill with added interests?</p><p>If we don't pay, will his/her term at the uni be terminated automatically?</p><p></p><p>I'd appreciate any information/suggestion/wisdom.</p><p></p><p>Thank you.</p><p></p><p>Not enjoying holidays at all <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/angry-very.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":angry-very:" title="angry-very :angry-very:" data-shortname=":angry-very:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pacific ocean, post: 705156, member: 21010"] Update: the credit card of the Difficult Child has been canceled but just before this took place, the Difficult Child had already spent around $700 and the unpaid bill came here to the home address overseas. The Difficult Child emailed back and asked if we would take care of it. We won't. Also, our Difficult Child now is a man. The child publicly announced she was a man after all even thought she was a non gender confirming gender person a month ago. My mother received a letter of the announcement. He/she has a new name and said he feels better than ever and is proud of being a man. A typical Borderline (BPD)? It has hurt and confused many people who are close to us. Surprisingly, actually many of them congratulated her for this come out and we are the horrible parents who have no understanding regarding her long suffering of GID. Some stopped talking to us after her/he coming out. Well, this has nothing to do with the Difficult Child's gender confusion, however, with the cc abuse, my husband finally said we should not support Difficult Child's college tuition for next year and sent email. The Difficult Child sent him back a business report like letter back saying we can't do that legally because... We checked the FA section at the Uni's site and yes, she/he is our dependent when she/he applied so we are responsible for her tuition. According to his/her report on this issue, we would have to make a legal action in the US to change/prove the new status, her/him not being our dependent. Could anyone give us any advise on this? If we just don't pay, will we just get a bill after a bill with added interests? If we don't pay, will his/her term at the uni be terminated automatically? I'd appreciate any information/suggestion/wisdom. Thank you. Not enjoying holidays at all :angry-very: [/QUOTE]
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