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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 705358" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>She does not have borderline? She sounds more that than bipolar. Bipolar are only sometimes mean in certain manic states. With personality disorders they are rarely nice, lack empathy, and deliberately aim to hurt.</p><p></p><p>medications can blunt edges for the borderline, but doesn't make them nicer. Only a will to get better and special intensive therapy helps borderline.</p><p></p><p>Bipolar does not make a person mean. Norderlines do not think of how anyone feels but them. They don't understand the empathy they lack. So they keep hurting others and blame others for their problems. It isn't their faults, it's your fault.</p><p></p><p>As one with a mood disorder I am also a highly sensitive person, tuned into the moods of others and until my therapy kicked in, I blamed myself, not others, for everything bad in the world. Mood disordered people are more apt to over feel. We hurt if others hurt. We read these stories, which are not ours, and cry anyways. We can feel another's pain.</p><p></p><p>Borderlines can not. </p><p></p><p>Your daughter needs treatment for her real core problem. Or she eont get better and I fear she will still hurt you. Be careful.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 705358, member: 1550"] She does not have borderline? She sounds more that than bipolar. Bipolar are only sometimes mean in certain manic states. With personality disorders they are rarely nice, lack empathy, and deliberately aim to hurt. medications can blunt edges for the borderline, but doesn't make them nicer. Only a will to get better and special intensive therapy helps borderline. Bipolar does not make a person mean. Norderlines do not think of how anyone feels but them. They don't understand the empathy they lack. So they keep hurting others and blame others for their problems. It isn't their faults, it's your fault. As one with a mood disorder I am also a highly sensitive person, tuned into the moods of others and until my therapy kicked in, I blamed myself, not others, for everything bad in the world. Mood disordered people are more apt to over feel. We hurt if others hurt. We read these stories, which are not ours, and cry anyways. We can feel another's pain. Borderlines can not. Your daughter needs treatment for her real core problem. Or she eont get better and I fear she will still hurt you. Be careful. [/QUOTE]
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