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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 413951" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>great ideas...... thank you! I also researched it and it says when a kid gets super clingy if the parent that being wonderful me <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> does a quick shut down due to well pure frustration it just solidifies the childs' fear "mom doesnt' want to be near me" it says that empathy witha strong hand both used at the precise same time is the ticket.</p><p> </p><p>so i've been trying it, tried it last night and it worked like a charm. i don't freak out on her, yet i do say enough is enough in that stern ok your driving me nuts voice. gotta get rid of that voice.</p><p> </p><p>she would never stay in house alone. therapist and i talked to her today. it was a lengthy talk about what she wants versus what she's doing to make that happen. she sees she's being lazy not putting the work in and is basically fed up. he in no way thinks she should return to school until we break her and make her do this work the mental work. he said she'll go down fast there.</p><p> </p><p>so we're pushing. he gave her a job each week find two social situations where you "have to" talk to someone new a kid. so i'll keep providing them, the library is tmrw night again. we went last week and she left early. hopefully tmrw will be better. also horseback riding she isnt' talking to any kids, yet there are only a few there. she says she wants dance now instead. that's because riding takes alot of work. ms. thing doesn't like work.</p><p> </p><p>we change medications tmrw also</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 413951, member: 4514"] great ideas...... thank you! I also researched it and it says when a kid gets super clingy if the parent that being wonderful me :) does a quick shut down due to well pure frustration it just solidifies the childs' fear "mom doesnt' want to be near me" it says that empathy witha strong hand both used at the precise same time is the ticket. so i've been trying it, tried it last night and it worked like a charm. i don't freak out on her, yet i do say enough is enough in that stern ok your driving me nuts voice. gotta get rid of that voice. she would never stay in house alone. therapist and i talked to her today. it was a lengthy talk about what she wants versus what she's doing to make that happen. she sees she's being lazy not putting the work in and is basically fed up. he in no way thinks she should return to school until we break her and make her do this work the mental work. he said she'll go down fast there. so we're pushing. he gave her a job each week find two social situations where you "have to" talk to someone new a kid. so i'll keep providing them, the library is tmrw night again. we went last week and she left early. hopefully tmrw will be better. also horseback riding she isnt' talking to any kids, yet there are only a few there. she says she wants dance now instead. that's because riding takes alot of work. ms. thing doesn't like work. we change medications tmrw also [/QUOTE]
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