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<blockquote data-quote="Motherearth Fathersun" data-source="post: 694813" data-attributes="member: 20541"><p>Thanks for your insight Ladies. Scent of Cedar you have been most helpful, I do believe she is disordered, but only through recent research have I realised to what extent. </p><p></p><p>I can't possibly tell you everything on here it has been lifelong and insidious, and it has only recently dawned on me how manipulative she is - other family members have distanced themselves over the years and lost contact with her. </p><p></p><p>Your responses tell me you didn't really read through my posts and just take the view you must be an awful person - I have no children and have always felt I could not take the risk of doing to them what I and my elder sibling went through - I knew I wasn't quite a whole person and have managed to finally like myself and realise I am not SO bad afterall. I shouldn't need to spell out if there was sexual or extreme abuse - emotional abuse leaves deep scars - I now choose to work on healing me rather than pleasing my mother. </p><p></p><p>My mother is not the frail incapacitated little old lady you seem to suggest. </p><p></p><p>Perhaps you lack the empathy to see that not all parents are good. </p><p></p><p>No more JADEing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Motherearth Fathersun, post: 694813, member: 20541"] Thanks for your insight Ladies. Scent of Cedar you have been most helpful, I do believe she is disordered, but only through recent research have I realised to what extent. I can't possibly tell you everything on here it has been lifelong and insidious, and it has only recently dawned on me how manipulative she is - other family members have distanced themselves over the years and lost contact with her. Your responses tell me you didn't really read through my posts and just take the view you must be an awful person - I have no children and have always felt I could not take the risk of doing to them what I and my elder sibling went through - I knew I wasn't quite a whole person and have managed to finally like myself and realise I am not SO bad afterall. I shouldn't need to spell out if there was sexual or extreme abuse - emotional abuse leaves deep scars - I now choose to work on healing me rather than pleasing my mother. My mother is not the frail incapacitated little old lady you seem to suggest. Perhaps you lack the empathy to see that not all parents are good. No more JADEing. [/QUOTE]
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