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Computer help...I think husband is "surfing"
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<blockquote data-quote="bby31288" data-source="post: 17499" data-attributes="member: 182"><p>All, thanks so much for your replies. I agree spying isn't the right thing to do. Everything in our life is great relationship wise, which is why I was so surprised to even think something is wrong. In the past he has had trouble with chat rooms. He became so involved with it, he started sharing stuff with people in his chat room instead of me. It was a problem, I told him I felt betrayed. He was sharing himself with them and not me...They were specifically women. This was many years ago. Maybe this is what is in the back of my mind. He is also having trouble with Alchol (sp) and has been drinking a lot, something he never did. I love him so much, and don't think I can take another addiction. I don't think netnanny is the way to go. I don't want to spy forever, just wanted to know so when I approached the subject with him I had some proof so we could work on it. I have no doubt he loves me, we will be married 19 years in March. You just don't throw away 19 years of marriage. I am sorry if I upset some of you. I have decided to take a day on Saturday, just him and I and have a chat. I will tell him what I am thinking, and ask him. Thanks everyone..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bby31288, post: 17499, member: 182"] All, thanks so much for your replies. I agree spying isn't the right thing to do. Everything in our life is great relationship wise, which is why I was so surprised to even think something is wrong. In the past he has had trouble with chat rooms. He became so involved with it, he started sharing stuff with people in his chat room instead of me. It was a problem, I told him I felt betrayed. He was sharing himself with them and not me...They were specifically women. This was many years ago. Maybe this is what is in the back of my mind. He is also having trouble with Alchol (sp) and has been drinking a lot, something he never did. I love him so much, and don't think I can take another addiction. I don't think netnanny is the way to go. I don't want to spy forever, just wanted to know so when I approached the subject with him I had some proof so we could work on it. I have no doubt he loves me, we will be married 19 years in March. You just don't throw away 19 years of marriage. I am sorry if I upset some of you. I have decided to take a day on Saturday, just him and I and have a chat. I will tell him what I am thinking, and ask him. Thanks everyone.. [/QUOTE]
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