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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 17959" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Beth,</p><p></p><p>I've not followed this very closely. My husband is chemically dependent with BiPolar (BP) on top of that. He's functioning fairly well & has just had his medications tweaked.</p><p></p><p>When things were at their absolute worst about 7 months ago, there was so much anger, so much suspicion in our household. There was this huge brick wall between husband & myself & we tried to ignore it. Fortunately, the issue was forced with a much needed hospitalization for husband this past August.</p><p></p><p>Since then we have spent hours in marriage counseling. In the meantime, husband is facing his own demons, while I address some of my own.</p><p></p><p>I have learned that *confrontation* when my husband is non- communicative is counter productive. </p><p></p><p>Given your level of anxiety, it seems that you & husband need to sit down & start talking. Bring up concerns honestly - with no judgement. Listen - really listen to husband's response. </p><p></p><p>Take this for what it is - it takes two to make or break a marriage.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 17959, member: 393"] Beth, I've not followed this very closely. My husband is chemically dependent with BiPolar (BP) on top of that. He's functioning fairly well & has just had his medications tweaked. When things were at their absolute worst about 7 months ago, there was so much anger, so much suspicion in our household. There was this huge brick wall between husband & myself & we tried to ignore it. Fortunately, the issue was forced with a much needed hospitalization for husband this past August. Since then we have spent hours in marriage counseling. In the meantime, husband is facing his own demons, while I address some of my own. I have learned that *confrontation* when my husband is non- communicative is counter productive. Given your level of anxiety, it seems that you & husband need to sit down & start talking. Bring up concerns honestly - with no judgement. Listen - really listen to husband's response. Take this for what it is - it takes two to make or break a marriage. [/QUOTE]
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