I would go to download.com and check out the parental control software. See what all of them say they do. I know there are some that actually email you pictures of what is going on every so many minutes. I havent had to do this in years.
I actually did put a keylogger on someones computer years ago but it wasnt my kids computer. It was a co-workers computer and he was going to gay chatrooms, gay sites and using msn messenger to chat with MY son. Yeah...I had the logs on my side to see it but I wanted to have his side too.
Thats another thing...you can turn on archiving of most of the messengers to save the messages and they probably dont realize it.
