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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 757651" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Is there a foster care system in your country? In the States there are specialized foster homes for children with special needs. They have training to deal with certain behaviors. If he is violent towards the younger children, how can they be sacrificed? As long as you don't act the whole family is at risk. Your hands are tied, as I see it.</p><p></p><p>I am not advocating this at all but there are parents in my country that actually forfeit parental rights, so that their seriously troubled or ill children get the specialized care that they need. For them it is an act of love. </p><p></p><p>Does your son have special interests or aptitudes or hobbies? </p><p></p><p>In the United States, if a child in the public school system requires residential treatment, the school system is required to pay for schooling, and usually medical insurance pays the other part. They call this an IEP. My son while he didn't live in residential treatment for several years received free education outside of the school district, because he could not be educated in public schools.</p><p></p><p>Is there anything like this? Are there funds for him to live and be educated away from the family?</p><p></p><p>Are there specialists that you can go to in your community to help you make a plan, that would know about available resources?</p><p></p><p>That's what I did. I went to a man who helped us get my son graduated from high school, by studying individually. I am not saying this is an option for you; only that there must be consultants who might know about available options and resources.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 757651, member: 18958"] Is there a foster care system in your country? In the States there are specialized foster homes for children with special needs. They have training to deal with certain behaviors. If he is violent towards the younger children, how can they be sacrificed? As long as you don't act the whole family is at risk. Your hands are tied, as I see it. I am not advocating this at all but there are parents in my country that actually forfeit parental rights, so that their seriously troubled or ill children get the specialized care that they need. For them it is an act of love. Does your son have special interests or aptitudes or hobbies? In the United States, if a child in the public school system requires residential treatment, the school system is required to pay for schooling, and usually medical insurance pays the other part. They call this an IEP. My son while he didn't live in residential treatment for several years received free education outside of the school district, because he could not be educated in public schools. Is there anything like this? Are there funds for him to live and be educated away from the family? Are there specialists that you can go to in your community to help you make a plan, that would know about available resources? That's what I did. I went to a man who helped us get my son graduated from high school, by studying individually. I am not saying this is an option for you; only that there must be consultants who might know about available options and resources. [/QUOTE]
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