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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 351884" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I'm late to this thread.........been having my own nitemare for the past couple of weeks. But you've gotten good sound advice.</p><p></p><p>Stick to your guns, whatever happens. It's not going to be easy. (hence the anxiety/panic attack) Good news is they can't force 14 yo to visit.......and due to circumstances just MIGHT really consider your supervised visitation. If you get the protective order, keep it in place as long as possible and turn her in at the slightest infringement. Have to be very careful with such orders because if she violates terms of it and you don't report it, it can become null and void........same if you violate the terms because they pertain to you as well. (two sided) Just some helpful information. I've had too many friends with abusive partners let little things slide then when they went to report them on something big they found out their order no longer applied.</p><p></p><p>If you can't get her into treatment, you can at least keep the kids safe and out of harms way as much as possible.</p><p></p><p>Oh, and Document, Document, Document. Keep a paper trail and a file to cover your own fanny. It really does help.</p><p></p><p>(((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 351884, member: 84"] I'm late to this thread.........been having my own nitemare for the past couple of weeks. But you've gotten good sound advice. Stick to your guns, whatever happens. It's not going to be easy. (hence the anxiety/panic attack) Good news is they can't force 14 yo to visit.......and due to circumstances just MIGHT really consider your supervised visitation. If you get the protective order, keep it in place as long as possible and turn her in at the slightest infringement. Have to be very careful with such orders because if she violates terms of it and you don't report it, it can become null and void........same if you violate the terms because they pertain to you as well. (two sided) Just some helpful information. I've had too many friends with abusive partners let little things slide then when they went to report them on something big they found out their order no longer applied. If you can't get her into treatment, you can at least keep the kids safe and out of harms way as much as possible. Oh, and Document, Document, Document. Keep a paper trail and a file to cover your own fanny. It really does help. (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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