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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 352834" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>RO, RO, It's off to court we go. </p><p></p><p>A hotel until the ex parte order might be a good idea, if it hasn't come already. Be sure to ask your atty if you can stick her with the bill as it is her harassment that caused you to have to vacate your home. </p><p></p><p>Sounds like your daughter has figured out what is what. Hopefully your difficult child will. Even with BiPolar (BP) your difficult child is problem not totally clueless. Keeping ex from manipulating his illness will be the problem. </p><p></p><p>Your bestest buddy through this entire process is pen and paper. Keep a log of what happens. Not just keep each email, keep an overall log with what happened each day. Once custody/visitation is set and happening, if the kids come back upset, happy, dirty, sad, hungry, thrilled, whatever, jot it down. If she is early or late, changes days or times, EVERYTHING gets written down. </p><p></p><p>If you have that, ESP if you have some good stuff in there, you can later take it to a judge and easily show why she shouldn't see the kids, or have custody or overnights or whatever. Having some good stuff shows the judge you are not out to "get" her, that you are reporting what you see.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry it has to be this traumatic a process for everyone.</p><p></p><p>Mental Illness hoovers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 352834, member: 1233"] RO, RO, It's off to court we go. A hotel until the ex parte order might be a good idea, if it hasn't come already. Be sure to ask your atty if you can stick her with the bill as it is her harassment that caused you to have to vacate your home. Sounds like your daughter has figured out what is what. Hopefully your difficult child will. Even with BiPolar (BP) your difficult child is problem not totally clueless. Keeping ex from manipulating his illness will be the problem. Your bestest buddy through this entire process is pen and paper. Keep a log of what happens. Not just keep each email, keep an overall log with what happened each day. Once custody/visitation is set and happening, if the kids come back upset, happy, dirty, sad, hungry, thrilled, whatever, jot it down. If she is early or late, changes days or times, EVERYTHING gets written down. If you have that, ESP if you have some good stuff in there, you can later take it to a judge and easily show why she shouldn't see the kids, or have custody or overnights or whatever. Having some good stuff shows the judge you are not out to "get" her, that you are reporting what you see. I am sorry it has to be this traumatic a process for everyone. Mental Illness hoovers. [/QUOTE]
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