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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 353463" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Miles, I don't want to be a "b-word" but you've got to get tough on this. She's still controling you and the kids and the entire situation at hand. The way I see it: (and let me preface this with I just had my husband of 15 years leave because he was getting emotionally, mentally and approaching physically cruel to the kids - and myself- so I may be in this "aggressive state of mind")</p><p> </p><p>1. she has refused medication</p><p>2. she has punched your daughter in the face</p><p>3. she's mentally abusing all of you</p><p>4. she's disavowing all responsibility for any of the circumstances</p><p>5. she's locking herself in the room with the children where you are fearful for what she may do</p><p>6. she's not following the temp. custody orders</p><p>7. she's not respecting the supervised visitation requirements</p><p>8. she's trying to make you the scary bad guy when the kids need to feel that at least ONE of their parents has their best interest at hand</p><p> </p><p>Yet you're not sure what to do? Call your lawyer and get tough. If you had to be in a 1 bedroom apartment with all of the kids, it would be psychologically best to keep them away from this woman. Yeah, I know, you probably still love her (I know I still love the person that my husband WAS and COULD BE) but that's not important right now. Yes she needs help, yes she's in an ugly place right now - but you are NOT responsible for that - SHE IS!! </p><p> </p><p>I worry that your BiPolar (BP) son will think that this is where he's going to end up someday - out of control and unable to function. There are so many people with BiPolar (BP) disorder that are in good shape when they take their medications, keep up with their docs. and accept that they have an issue. Why surround him with someone who intentionally displays this type of behavior because she refuses to accept reality? </p><p> </p><p>Again, I'm sorry if I'm hurting your feelings, but prayer meetings? parties in the city? locking herself in and emotionally abusing them? Intentionally alienating you from them? Who is this helping?</p><p> </p><p>GET HER OUT!</p><p> </p><p>Again - I'm truly sorry if I'm being a witch with a "b", but I'm worried for you and the kids.</p><p> </p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 353463, member: 3814"] Miles, I don't want to be a "b-word" but you've got to get tough on this. She's still controling you and the kids and the entire situation at hand. The way I see it: (and let me preface this with I just had my husband of 15 years leave because he was getting emotionally, mentally and approaching physically cruel to the kids - and myself- so I may be in this "aggressive state of mind") 1. she has refused medication 2. she has punched your daughter in the face 3. she's mentally abusing all of you 4. she's disavowing all responsibility for any of the circumstances 5. she's locking herself in the room with the children where you are fearful for what she may do 6. she's not following the temp. custody orders 7. she's not respecting the supervised visitation requirements 8. she's trying to make you the scary bad guy when the kids need to feel that at least ONE of their parents has their best interest at hand Yet you're not sure what to do? Call your lawyer and get tough. If you had to be in a 1 bedroom apartment with all of the kids, it would be psychologically best to keep them away from this woman. Yeah, I know, you probably still love her (I know I still love the person that my husband WAS and COULD BE) but that's not important right now. Yes she needs help, yes she's in an ugly place right now - but you are NOT responsible for that - SHE IS!! I worry that your BiPolar (BP) son will think that this is where he's going to end up someday - out of control and unable to function. There are so many people with BiPolar (BP) disorder that are in good shape when they take their medications, keep up with their docs. and accept that they have an issue. Why surround him with someone who intentionally displays this type of behavior because she refuses to accept reality? Again, I'm sorry if I'm hurting your feelings, but prayer meetings? parties in the city? locking herself in and emotionally abusing them? Intentionally alienating you from them? Who is this helping? GET HER OUT! Again - I'm truly sorry if I'm being a witch with a "b", but I'm worried for you and the kids. Beth [/QUOTE]
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