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<blockquote data-quote="katya02" data-source="post: 354388" data-attributes="member: 2884"><p>Hi, I'm joining the conversation very late but wanted to say hello and offer my support and best wishes as you go through this agonizing time. </p><p>I'm sorry to hear that mediation is so painful (unlikely it would be anything else, I guess, but still - ), but if wife is continuing to demonstrate </p><p>instability it's good that it happens in front of the mediator as well as privately. Sometimes people pull themselves together</p><p>for the officials in the process and that makes it ten times harder to protect the kids. If the mediator orders stricter visitation than you'd</p><p>anticipated, it may be for only a limited time; visitation and access can always be revisited at the request of either party. If wife has recently</p><p>been violent toward any of the children and is currently unstable, what the kids need is safety and stability. They need to know they're protected</p><p>when their mother isn't well; once she's on medications and doing better they will be able to see her more. </p><p></p><p>I hope truehope works for your difficult child - I looked into it at one point but by then my difficult child 1 refused to take absolutely anything else and I never got</p><p>trying it. I do hope it helps.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="katya02, post: 354388, member: 2884"] Hi, I'm joining the conversation very late but wanted to say hello and offer my support and best wishes as you go through this agonizing time. I'm sorry to hear that mediation is so painful (unlikely it would be anything else, I guess, but still - ), but if wife is continuing to demonstrate instability it's good that it happens in front of the mediator as well as privately. Sometimes people pull themselves together for the officials in the process and that makes it ten times harder to protect the kids. If the mediator orders stricter visitation than you'd anticipated, it may be for only a limited time; visitation and access can always be revisited at the request of either party. If wife has recently been violent toward any of the children and is currently unstable, what the kids need is safety and stability. They need to know they're protected when their mother isn't well; once she's on medications and doing better they will be able to see her more. I hope truehope works for your difficult child - I looked into it at one point but by then my difficult child 1 refused to take absolutely anything else and I never got trying it. I do hope it helps. [/QUOTE]
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