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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 237681" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I'm thinking if your sole responsibility in a marriage/life/relationship is to come and feed the dog and you're resentful of it? Then I would get an automatic dog feeder. </p><p> </p><p>And as far as him yelling I FEED MY SON? Well after you get that automatic dog feeder? Tell him you think he has a choice - Either HE can get a second job so that YOU can be home to feed your son OR he can shut his mouth, be a Dad and stop whining about feeding HIS child. </p><p> </p><p>If that persisits? I would get microwave fun meals for my kid - show him how to use the microwave and tell dad to take a flight - anywhere. </p><p> </p><p>I admit I also had an x that said WHAT HAPPENED BEFORE YOU is NONE of your business. um....Okay - WHO ever said I wanted to know. I guess when my son was born there were things I wondered at that point because of medical history but after being adopted it really didn't matter. I'm sure throughout our marriage I was curious a time or two about the life before me, but considering that eventually I figured out he didn't even want a life WITH ME? I stopped being nosey, kept going to counseling and figured out a plan to get out. </p><p> </p><p>Kjs - it's not easy to do what you are doing - so please know you have my admiration for doing the best thing for you and your son. If it's your hearts desire to stay with this man and try to fix things? So be it. That is your perogative and your life. However as your friend, I have to say that the only person I see in your relationship trying to be an adult is you. I can't imagine what this must be doing to your son. To think that your husband has no more respect for himself or his son or wife than to spout off in front of you all and not want to try and even have a rational discussion? Ugh......more power to ya sister. </p><p> </p><p>Go get the automatic dog feeder and some microwave fun meals for your son and then lets see what your husband thinks he can broken record you with. What would it be then? WHO wipes my rear? WHO WHO IS IT WHO WIPES MY REAR WHO WHO WHO? Yeah I'm with Loth - </p><p>WHOOPDIE FREAKING DO - bravo man - you just managed to put kibble in a bowl and make dinner for yourself AND your kid. </p><p> </p><p>And as far as loosing health insurance? OMG - WHAT ABOUT LOOSING HIS wife? Or doesn't he think you've had enough of his abusive crud? WOW - </p><p> </p><p>Honey I'm so sorry for you - really. And I'm not saying that you aren't contributing to these fights, but WOW - you sure are dealing with someone very mature there. </p><p> </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/faint.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":faint:" title="faint :faint:" data-shortname=":faint:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 237681, member: 4964"] I'm thinking if your sole responsibility in a marriage/life/relationship is to come and feed the dog and you're resentful of it? Then I would get an automatic dog feeder. And as far as him yelling I FEED MY SON? Well after you get that automatic dog feeder? Tell him you think he has a choice - Either HE can get a second job so that YOU can be home to feed your son OR he can shut his mouth, be a Dad and stop whining about feeding HIS child. If that persisits? I would get microwave fun meals for my kid - show him how to use the microwave and tell dad to take a flight - anywhere. I admit I also had an x that said WHAT HAPPENED BEFORE YOU is NONE of your business. um....Okay - WHO ever said I wanted to know. I guess when my son was born there were things I wondered at that point because of medical history but after being adopted it really didn't matter. I'm sure throughout our marriage I was curious a time or two about the life before me, but considering that eventually I figured out he didn't even want a life WITH ME? I stopped being nosey, kept going to counseling and figured out a plan to get out. Kjs - it's not easy to do what you are doing - so please know you have my admiration for doing the best thing for you and your son. If it's your hearts desire to stay with this man and try to fix things? So be it. That is your perogative and your life. However as your friend, I have to say that the only person I see in your relationship trying to be an adult is you. I can't imagine what this must be doing to your son. To think that your husband has no more respect for himself or his son or wife than to spout off in front of you all and not want to try and even have a rational discussion? Ugh......more power to ya sister. Go get the automatic dog feeder and some microwave fun meals for your son and then lets see what your husband thinks he can broken record you with. What would it be then? WHO wipes my rear? WHO WHO IS IT WHO WIPES MY REAR WHO WHO WHO? Yeah I'm with Loth - WHOOPDIE FREAKING DO - bravo man - you just managed to put kibble in a bowl and make dinner for yourself AND your kid. And as far as loosing health insurance? OMG - WHAT ABOUT LOOSING HIS wife? Or doesn't he think you've had enough of his abusive crud? WOW - Honey I'm so sorry for you - really. And I'm not saying that you aren't contributing to these fights, but WOW - you sure are dealing with someone very mature there. :knockedout: [/QUOTE]
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