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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 758961" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Helpless I agree with the others, that you don't have control here. Almost all of the control exists with your son, his choices. This is worth a try I think with the acceptance that he may or may not choose to make better choices. I am remembering a mother who came here a few years ago about her son the same age as yours. This son turned everything around. I asked her how and she told me it was a new girlfriend. I can see a scenario where your son does not buck this girlfriend's mother in the same way he does his own parents and grandparents. Good luck.</p><p></p><p>Helpless. You need to let go of the sense you have control here. You don't. You would not be doing wrong by letting them try this. Nor would it be a good thing to make him stay incarcerated when he has this opportunity. But as we have seen, this doesn't mean he will do what he needs to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 758961, member: 18958"] Helpless I agree with the others, that you don't have control here. Almost all of the control exists with your son, his choices. This is worth a try I think with the acceptance that he may or may not choose to make better choices. I am remembering a mother who came here a few years ago about her son the same age as yours. This son turned everything around. I asked her how and she told me it was a new girlfriend. I can see a scenario where your son does not buck this girlfriend's mother in the same way he does his own parents and grandparents. Good luck. Helpless. You need to let go of the sense you have control here. You don't. You would not be doing wrong by letting them try this. Nor would it be a good thing to make him stay incarcerated when he has this opportunity. But as we have seen, this doesn't mean he will do what he needs to. [/QUOTE]
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