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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 153077" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>DDD and Dreamer- I am completely on board with you. We just got back- she was "nice" enough to agree that he should start being able to earn some privileddges back from me. She says he's on house arrest but will allow a friend over at my discretion. (That shocked me.) Another thing that shocked me was that the GAL apparently spoke with her, but the GAL hasn't returned my call, so it looks like now she must be on board with the PO. difficult child broke my windshield on the way home he was so upset and balliistic. He held up well talking with the PO. Really, while they are doing all this to make sure he gets treatment/therapy- which I am more than providing- I am about to a point of telling them that if THEY can't get on board with the treatment plan, then I can't take it anymore. The ONLY thing making me hold on longer is knowing what they will do to him- put him in detention and he'll get no adequate treatment and he'll probably never return home. If we are lucky enough to make it another 4 1/2 weeks, which right now I doubt, I might have to address this question. I just don't see any solution- the po's methods are antagonizing the situation, while difficult child is already cycling, so how can this get better?</p><p></p><p>Oh- she is definitely on a power trip. While difficult child followed her requirements perfectly for 8 mos., she reports "fairly well". How do I get the gal or anyone to see that the treatment plan needs everyone in difficult child's life on board- not just difficult child and me?</p><p></p><p>And, I almost found this part humurous- she acted like she didn't want my written "update" explaining things and made comments like none of that was important, what did it have to do with anything, and that she didn't care about it. Then, she starts asking questions about what happened the week before difficult child went to psychiatric hospital, what was going on at school and with friends, etc.- you know, all the stuff I had typed up and have been trying to give her. She did that once before abbout medications- why would I tell her aboiut medications, he needs to take repsonsibility- then, why aren't I keeping her up to date on what medications he's taking...</p><p></p><p>Does ebay sell voodoo starter kits?? Or, do I just make a doll out of an old sock and start sticking it with pins?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 153077, member: 3699"] DDD and Dreamer- I am completely on board with you. We just got back- she was "nice" enough to agree that he should start being able to earn some privileddges back from me. She says he's on house arrest but will allow a friend over at my discretion. (That shocked me.) Another thing that shocked me was that the GAL apparently spoke with her, but the GAL hasn't returned my call, so it looks like now she must be on board with the PO. difficult child broke my windshield on the way home he was so upset and balliistic. He held up well talking with the PO. Really, while they are doing all this to make sure he gets treatment/therapy- which I am more than providing- I am about to a point of telling them that if THEY can't get on board with the treatment plan, then I can't take it anymore. The ONLY thing making me hold on longer is knowing what they will do to him- put him in detention and he'll get no adequate treatment and he'll probably never return home. If we are lucky enough to make it another 4 1/2 weeks, which right now I doubt, I might have to address this question. I just don't see any solution- the po's methods are antagonizing the situation, while difficult child is already cycling, so how can this get better? Oh- she is definitely on a power trip. While difficult child followed her requirements perfectly for 8 mos., she reports "fairly well". How do I get the gal or anyone to see that the treatment plan needs everyone in difficult child's life on board- not just difficult child and me? And, I almost found this part humurous- she acted like she didn't want my written "update" explaining things and made comments like none of that was important, what did it have to do with anything, and that she didn't care about it. Then, she starts asking questions about what happened the week before difficult child went to psychiatric hospital, what was going on at school and with friends, etc.- you know, all the stuff I had typed up and have been trying to give her. She did that once before abbout medications- why would I tell her aboiut medications, he needs to take repsonsibility- then, why aren't I keeping her up to date on what medications he's taking... Does ebay sell voodoo starter kits?? Or, do I just make a doll out of an old sock and start sticking it with pins? [/QUOTE]
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